Quoting David Closs:" u pretty much bashed her and called her smurfin stupid. I'm just saying, im sure she didn't get on here ... [snip!] ... being put down. Think how u would feel if u asked somethin on here and all u got was put dwn. wouldn't feel so great would it?"
No worries; thanks hon. I really did come in here to ask for advice but realize I may be judged. Every one has different backgrounds. Maybe everyone has good intentions but some are better with words than others.
I don't get angry at people who uses nasty judgement or words, I actually feel really bad for them because it makes me wonder what kind of home they grew up in. Maybe they didn't have a caring parent? Maybe they were bullied? Maybe they didn't achieve their goals in life? Maybe they were abused? A lot of things come through my head. I just take the name calling and judgement as positive as I possibly can and appreciate that they even tried to give me advice. Thanks again, you're very kind. God bless.