Quoting .BAM bitch.:" For the sperm donor to get overnights with a two week old breastfeeding newborn? My son and my now ... [snip!] ... smurf no. I don't want him to get my kids at all. He will most likely ditch out again and my SO is the only dad my son knows."

first.. confused... do you have 2 kids with him? hes a father, not a sperm donor.

father's deserve rights... but honestly, I think MOST judges will take breastfeeding into consideration.

Quoting .BAM bitch.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting misanthrope:</b>" No, it was in my custody order that my breastfed ... [snip!] ... telling the mother to pump. I don't know what I would do if I had my newborn taken from me for overnights against my will :'("

it's not about YOU... it's about your little one bonding with her FATHER. Think about what is best for your LO.. not yourself

I would it is completely unreasonable. I would take him to court and file for full custody. He can have visitation but I don't think taking children away from their mother 3-4 nights a week when he hasn't been an active part in you son's life is a bit extreme.

However, I do have 2 friends who did it. They let their BDs start taking the kid one day during the week and every other weekend starting when they came home from the hospital. I thought it was really freaking weird but whatever.