Quoting Just Ames:" Umm. She needs to cut that smurf loose. Way too much baggage that he is seemingly holding onto or entertaining. Smurf that."
Quoting Andrea0510:" Sounds like he needs some time to sort out his family issues before jumping into another relationship because he's obviously just dragging his girlfriend down. :/"Supposedly he has sorted everything out. I just don't want my friend getting hurt. She doesn't deserve to deal with crap like this!
Quoting Andrea0510:" Doesn't sound like he has sorted out EVERYTHING he needs to let his ex know that there are boundaries ... [snip!] ... and she needs to stop confronting your friend about their relationship because it's none of her business. Sounds risky to me!"His wife seems like a nut! lol I'm afraid he's playing my friend. Like telling her one thing & the wife the other.