Quoting Virginia Bailey:" My friend.had baby showers for all 8 of.her kids and the last 5 were boys and they are all close in age. ... [snip!] ... then instead of a shower have a party where gifts are appreciated but not necessary now of just a celebration of a new life"
thats kinda what we did for our son whos 14 mons old!
we had a sort of meet the baby party, some people brought things, but we didnt ask for anything, i had most of my 5 year olds things left over from when he was a baby. id like to do that again!