Quoting Stacey30:" I did tell him I didn't want him doing that again. He laughed and said he was just playing. We have been to counseling a few years ago for same issues, obviously didn't work."
It's more then counseling. Can you be happy? You seem to resent the fact that you got married young. Can you let that go? Because you'll need to. You'll need to accept that you got married young, and you didn't experience certain thigns. If you can't get over that, then you need to leave. I'm not trying to be mean, but you just can't expect a relationship to work when you seem to want things you simply can't have being married to him. It's causing you BOTH stress and pain. So you have to be really honest with yourself. Is this marriage enough for you? Is being married to him enough for you? If it isn't, you're doing neither of you a favor by sticking around. You end up resenting him, and he ends up hurt .