Quoting Lotusmama:" Wow. Okay... where to start with this. Domestic Violence is not okay. Period. Full stop. He put his ... [snip!] ... her continued relationship is cheating then he can leave her - but he can not abuse her! There is NEVER an excuse for abuse!"
okay. and if you had read my post, you would've seen that it sounded like he was trying to rough play sexually. (to me) not that he was trying to hurt her bc he was pissed.
i also never said she cheated.
but in a sense, when her HUSBAND wants to CLOSE the relationship, she needs to cut ties with the other man. bc then it IS cheating. bc then BOTH parties of the MARRIAGE no longer AGREE to an open relationship..
and i never condone the "abuse" i stated that IN MY OWN OPINION - it doesn't sound like he was INTENTIONALLY trying to HURT her. she even said that it happened when they were PLAYING around...
nor did i ever say that what he did was ACCEPTABLE.. so get off your high smurfing horse before you try and put words into my mouth....
read my post. it never said "yeah him choking you is fine bc you're a dirty whore for not cutting ties with your other man bc at first an open relationship was okay, now your husband isn't okay with it. but you're not really happy with him in the first place, and are with him for financial reasons, so you're trying to feel happy with someone else. but when he no longer agrees with the open relationship - you're a cheating bitch"
did i say that? no..