Quoting Amanda Hellums:" How old r yal? Sounds like yal both have feelings for each other...but have a long road ahead....I think ... [snip!] ... think as long as u take it slow yal will b ok but u have to make sure what UR feeling is real and not a rebound from BD"I'm 19, and he is 20. I don't want to be too much more than friends right now because I wanna have my littler girl and focus on my kids before jumping into something.