Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:" I love it! My sister wanted twins and was disappointed when the sonogram showed only one lol. We also ... [snip!] ... bad sometimes that every time my sister tries to do something like me, we kind of one up her. It's never on purpose though lol"
I didn't expect twins. I wish that I had them one at a time but, I still love my bundle of beauties! It is easy for me to be their mom. I am just tired of everyone grouping them together as a package deal. As they get older, it is less frequent but it still happens.
Dustin and I live our lives for us. Ashley is so insecure in who she is that she is sneaky and does decietful things. I could sit here for hours telling you about all the awful crap her and her mother have done to me. I shouldn't say it but, I will dance a little jig on the monsters grave when she dies! I honestly hate and despise them that bad. The straw that broke the camels back was over a baby name. April of '10 we were in AZ for a funeral. i was pregnant with my son at the time as was the ssmurf. The monster asked what our names were we said "Alexander John, Isaiah," Before I could spit out the last one she says "Don't you dare tell me Anthony (his dad's and grandfathers name)" I said "funny enough, it is in the running." Alexander and Isaiah were for the girls if they were boys so we were carrying them over. Alexander is a family name on my side and John was my grandfather. Well, the ssmurf was considering Atticus and Sawyer. Total different playing fields we were good.
May '10 the monster comes to the girls birthday. We are shopping and I am buying something for the ssmurfs spawn. Monster in law proceeds to tell me that the Ssmurf has decided to name her son Alexander. I fume for weeks, husband calls the ssmurf and she says "No, we are considering Daniel and Jacob". Kids are born, Hers is daniel and mine ends up being Anthony because we couldn't agree on the others but were going to use Alexander should we have another boy.
for over a year Monster taunts me and pisses me off about the Alexander thing telling me ssmurf was going to use it right up to the moment her son was born yadda yadda yadda. All to piss me off.
November '11, ssmurf is pregnant with another boy. His name is to be Matthew Quinn. Monster says she hates Quinn because the father chose it and she hates the father.
January '12 Text message comes out Matthew Alexander is here!
She managed to convince the Ssmurf to use our name because she hates BIL and myself. She managed to piss us both off in one shot. Well, now every time she looks at that little boy she will be reminded what an ass hole she really is. I called her out on it in July infront of my father in law. Pretty much embarassed her for the bulk of her shameless deeds. Haven't said more than 3 words to her since.