Quoting Juhsteen:" I have told him about positions that I thought would be great for him, even made him some really good ... [snip!] ... some really good resumes and he says "I can't apply for those" I ask why and he says "because they test"...Hello, quit smoking!"
Quoting Mami Ana:" If you are so adamant about not losing your kids, you wouldn't even be questioning yourself right now. You'd be packing your things or kicking his smurf out."
Quoting Not tellin:" He won't. Why should he? He has nothing to lose by continuing."
Quoting Juhsteen:" He will surely lose me, it's just a matter of time. I feel like a bottle about to explode. I guess I ... [snip!] ... give a rats ass about how he is affecting his loved ones because he has also promised his mother many of times and failed."
Quoting Not tellin:" You make alot of empty threats. You said you would leave how many times and you are still there? Nothing ... [snip!] ... him on his way. Probably easier that way since you will retain custody of the kids and moving all that crap will be difficult."
Quoting Juhsteen:" This is true. I know I am part of enabling him. I have never had to deal with this before so I know ... [snip!] ... areas, but yet nothing and I know in my heart I can't keep going like this but it's letting him know that's the hard part."
Quoting K. P. Walsh:" I'd want to leave that situation. You said it all. 30 years old no ambition? Don't you kind of feel like you may be settling?"
Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Juhsteen:</b>" I know, and I just told his mom because we ... [snip!] ... and learning from him. They will start thiking that what he does is okay! You dont want that. Good luck, and stay strong."