I hate to bitch, but I really need to

So BD spent the night at a "friend's" house last night. I couldn't sleep because I was so upset. He comes home today and tells me he smurfed her. I just...I feel so smurfing upset. So smurfing depressed. I wish I could just leave the house but I can't just leave DS because it's "my" day. Oh sigh.

On top of it I live with BD, his sister, his sister's ex boyfriend, his parents, and DS. Well tonight BD's herion addict brother who steals everyone's smurf and always borrows money showed up here with his drug addict fiance and refused to leave. That's two smurfing extra people in the house. I can't even smurfing BREATHE in this house. I want to move out so badly but I'm so godamn broke that I can't. This is literally my only option until my student loans come in and I can get into low income housing. Oh jesus. I need a drink.

....The smurf are all of these ex-boyfriends and girlfriends living in the same house?

Sounds like a mess.

I guess you shouldn't be upset that 'BD' is sleeping with someone else... he isn't your SO.

Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" So BD spent the night at a "friend's" house last night. I couldn't sleep because I was so upset. He comes ... [snip!] ... is literally my only option until my student loans come in and I can get into low income housing. Oh jesus. I need a drink."

WOW! Why did he need to spend the night? I guess at least he was honest.

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Sounds like a mess. I guess you shouldn't be upset that 'BD' is sleeping with someone else... he isn't your SO. "

 

OP, you knew for awhile he was sleeping with his friend... you just didn't want to believe it. You need out of that situation.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" ....The smurf are all of these ex-boyfriends and girlfriends living in the same house?"

Yeah smurfs intense.

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Sounds like a mess. I guess you shouldn't be upset that 'BD' is sleeping with someone else... he isn't your SO. "

I know, I think that's why it's more upsetting. Because I shouldn't care. But I do, so much.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" ....The smurf are all of these ex-boyfriends and girlfriends living in the same house?"</blockquote>




This! It must be genetic. They can't let go

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:"   OP, you knew for awhile he was sleeping with his friend... you just didn't want to believe it. You need out of that situation. "

Exactly. It just hurt to actually hear the words.

Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" Exactly. It just hurt to actually hear the words."

I'm sorry  

You need out, hon, find a way and get out!

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" ....The smurf are all of these ex-boyfriends ... [snip!] ... ex-boyfriends and girlfriends living in the same house?"</blockquote> This! It must be genetic. They can't let go"

Hah. Seriously, if DH and I split up...One of us would be gone. Even if that meant moving back in with my parents. I don't think I could stand living in the same house as someone I dated/married/etc. That's like begging for heartache and drama. But...surprisingly, I've heard of many women on BG being split up and still living with their ex. Kind of makes me go  

Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" ....The smurf are all of these ex-boyfriends ... [snip!] ... ex-boyfriends and girlfriends living in the same house?"</blockquote> This! It must be genetic. They can't let go"

Yeah, BD's parents are divorced but they still live in the same house. Which is the house I live in.

Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" Yeah, BD's parents are divorced but they still live in the same house. Which is the house I live in."

That is a hot mess!

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Hah. Seriously, if DH and I split up...One of us would be gone. Even if that meant moving back in with ... [snip!] ... But...surprisingly, I've heard of many women on BG being split up and still living with their ex. Kind of makes me go  "

Sometimes its the only option. Like for me, it is literally my only option. That or living in my car with DS.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Hah. Seriously, if DH and I split up...One of us would be gone. Even if that meant moving back in with ... [snip!] ... But...surprisingly, I've heard of many women on BG being split up and still living with their ex. Kind of makes me go  "</blockquote>




Husband and I officially split on Monday. We will keep living together because it's easier logistically. Might be easier for us because we've both got someone else.