My heart goes out out to you and the challenges you are facing. I realize it's difficult to see your daughter go through this and not know what the future holds. Be assured you'll be in my thoughts and prayers, asking God to give you strength and wisdom for your parenting journey. I'm with an organization called Focus on the Family. They have counselors you can speak with over the phone (at no cost to you) that would love to offer you some support and advice as you walk through all of this. You can reach them by calling Monday through Friday between 6:00 A.M. and 8:00 P.M. (MT) at 1-855-771-HELP (4357). If you like, you can also go to the Focus on the Family
website which offers some articles , book recommendations and referrals for ADHD, autism and Asperger's. I hope this information is a help. Grace and peace.