re: my stomach is in my throat... tmi

I had the same thing happen to me during my last pregnancy. I woke up and was bleeding pretty bad and cramping. I just knew what had happened. I got to the hospital and they did and u/s and when I saw my baby jumping around I almost jumped off the table with joy. I had a subchorionic hematoma also. My son is now 9 months old and happy and he is the cutest thing.

we had an u/s yesterday we didn't see anything and the dr. said it was to early to determine if they saw anything, I had a RH shot yesterday for negitive blood and my bleeding. they told me I was having a threatened misscarriage i might still be pregnant I might not... its really an emotional thing for me... on min im crying one min laughing one min im just a mess.... it really stinks... eaither way its not in my hands.

how are things? Have you found anything out? Hope everything is ok. Thinking of you. 

we lost the baby... went to the er on Saturday and my levels completely dropped from 800 on Thurs to a 78 on Sat. Im a mess and at home my parents are not being there at all. my dad wont speak to me and my mom doesn't talk about it. I didn't tell them I was pregnant to begin with, ( I live there with my son and my mom told me if I got pregnant again I would have to leave) I was trying to work things out. Now my family wants me to chose between them or my SO, saying he dosent need anymore children, you guys have nothing, you deserve to be happy. its a bunch of bullsmurf really and my dad last night looked right at me and said, " so your done making babies right" My mom said thats enough and he said " he needed to say that" I need out of that toxic environment or I will never heal.. I feel like crap already, I miss our little one and I wish I could crawl under a rock and have him/her all to myself again. I am hurt, sad and completely heartbroken...

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:" we lost the baby... went to the er on Saturday and my levels completely dropped from 800 on Thurs to ... [snip!] ... one and I wish I could crawl under a rock and have him/her all to myself again. I am hurt, sad and completely heartbroken... "

I am so sorry they are not supporting you. I lost a pregnancy as well in 2006 it was the hardest thing. I don't understand why parents behave the way they do sometimes. I haven't even seen or talked to mine in almost 2 years! They don't even know my youngest baby.
I hope you get to do what you think is best. Hopefully once they get over the shock they will support you better.
Sorry you lost the baby. I am thinking of you and I am here to talk if you need to.

Quoting Eli and Sam's Mom:" I am so sorry they are not supporting you. I lost a pregnancy as well in 2006 it was the hardest thing. ... [snip!] ... the shock they will support you better. Sorry you lost the baby. I am thinking of you and I am here to talk if you need to."

thank you. I can't wait to move out of here... its just making me sad...