teens moving in with their boyfriend after baby

do you agree with it? im planning on moving in with my boyfriend after i have the baby, but my friends keep telling me its a bad idea. idk, my thing is that 1. i want him to be able to help with the baby and 2. i dont want to deprive him of being around for everything that happens...first smile, first words, etc. just wondering what everyone else's opinion is.

I moved in with my boyfriend when I was 17 but I wasn't pregnant. I got pregnant 2 weeks before my 18th birthday.

Quoting kaylennn.:" do you agree with it? im planning on moving in with my boyfriend after i have the baby, but my friends ... [snip!] ... of being around for everything that happens...first smile, first words, etc. just wondering what everyone else's opinion is."

IMO kinda depends on their age and maturity levels. Is the house just his? or is someone else there too?

I figure you are already pregnant so why not? It would be nice to have the guy involved and around to help.

Quoting kaylennn.:" do you agree with it? im planning on moving in with my boyfriend after i have the baby, but my friends ... [snip!] ... of being around for everything that happens...first smile, first words, etc. just wondering what everyone else's opinion is."

if you are a really young teen and have a good relationship with your parents id stay home for a bit. a huge percentage of relationships fail the first year after having a baby. new babies are the hardest most rewarding things ever but take it slow?

It's going to really depend on the both of you. I've seen it work out, and I've seen it end in disaster. As long as you both are on the same page that you have a baby and no more play time and work together without being selfish you two should be fine. But if you have ANY doubts, I'd postpone it, but if you trust it'll work out then go for it! Trust your own instincts, what your gut is telling you.

Where is the most stable place for you and baby?

THAT is where you belong.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❥New Beginnings:</b>" IMO kinda depends on their age and maturity levels. Is the house just his? or is someone else there too?"</blockquote>



atm he's living with two roommates but by the time the babys born (in march) he'll have his own apartment.

Quoting kaylennn.:" do you agree with it? im planning on moving in with my boyfriend after i have the baby, but my friends ... [snip!] ... of being around for everything that happens...first smile, first words, etc. just wondering what everyone else's opinion is."

As long as you're on some good birth control and realize it's not playing house, I don't see it as an issue.
The reason some people think it's bad is because they feel like you living together is like another automatic pregnancy lol.

I considered it, but my mom was sick going through cancer treatments so I did not, that and life would have not been as good.
I did not end up staying with BD though.

It is worth a try as long as you have a back up plan.

me and SO were 18 when i had our daughter. my mom let him move in. we moved out together at 19, and haven't looked back. we're 24 now.

I live with my boyfriend now and are pregnant together. I want pregnant wen we moved into together though. Personally I would do it before the baby comes. Just so you 1. Can get ready and comfortable in your new surroundings and 2. Know you can handle living together before adding the stress of a baby on top of it.

Like the other ldies said if you both are able to work things out and are mature enough then give it a try. Where ever you see that u nd tge baby can be more stable then you have the answer . And some relationship don't last and others do . I think you should wait until he actually gets his apartment. Things can look more clear

If he has his own place I say go for it I did and things worjed out but if not wait til he does... And the same as all relationships if problems arise really question your self can I work through this can he work through this is it going to end us being able to be good parents to our baby if we dont end this now so on so fourth but its really what best for baby

Quoting kaylennn.:" do you agree with it? im planning on moving in with my boyfriend after i have the baby, but my friends ... [snip!] ... of being around for everything that happens...first smile, first words, etc. just wondering what everyone else's opinion is."

My boyfriend actually moved in with me :p lol but he's planning on getting his own place so IDK lol