re: Baby father don't like the baby name....

Name your baby what you want! If you want to avoid conflict maybe ask his opinion and give him a list of names you like. If you decide to take his opinion into account that is great to. I don't really even let my DH pick the names. I just make him think he has picked them. Overall, I picked the names of all of my children. This little guy I am having now is kinda screwed because everyone hates the name I picked except my hubby. lol

Quoting Hurray!:" I feel like not making an effort to involve him in decisions like this will only make matters worse. ... [snip!] ... and make him feel part of the experience the more likely he is to embrace that and become part of it through his own efforts."

I understand what you are saying but I have been in this alone since day one now that my due date is nearing he wants to be involved! When I found out I was expecting he told me to have and abortion as if this is his first child(NO). This is my first but how dare him to tell me to do away with her but all of a sudden you don't like the name choice.....SMFH...This is a grown man 40yrs of age and oh my behaving worst than a teenager! Im out of words.....

Quoting Just Andria:" Name your baby what you want! If you want to avoid conflict maybe ask his opinion and give him a list ... [snip!] ... of my children. This little guy I am having now is kinda screwed because everyone hates the name I picked except my hubby. lol"

Like your opinion on this situation!

Quoting KHLOE06:" Like your opinion on this situation!"

LOL.... Yeah, i'm kinda a b!@#$ like that! Just pick what you like and remember not everyone is not going to like it. It's not like he is going to hate his baby because he hates the name. He'll get over it.......

Quoting Colton's Mommy ❤:" I am not in a relationship with my baby's biological father. We never have been together, we had a one ... [snip!] ... concerned about her it would be different, but by the way he seems to be I don't think he should have any say so in the matter."

It's sad how men quickly turn into boys. My baby father and I were together 2yrs I did what any good woman would do for her man I even took care of his mom on her dying bed! A couple of months after she passes I find out im prego and he tells me to have an abortion.....WTF R U SERIOUS???" Im in a happy place in my life and I can't allow him to make big decisions with small thinking so im sticking to the name I named her.............BOTTOM LINE! Thanks for your words of encouragement. I hope all works out for you as well !

You're the one carrying her for nine months and also sacrificing your body to give birth to her. Since he doesn't even want her, and he isn't making an effort to be in her life or buy her things, then it's not his decision. You'd be wise to cut him off.. If he doesn't want anything to do with you now and he's being a complete jerk about the baby, don't even try to involve him. Just let it go. You and your daughter are MUCH better off without him  

<blockquote><b>Quoting KHLOE06:</b>" It's sad how men quickly turn into boys. My baby father and I were together 2yrs I did what any good ... [snip!] ... to the name I named her.............BOTTOM LINE! Thanks for your words of encouragement. I hope all works out for you as well !"</blockquote>



Yes it is. I mean a lot of people say I deserve him acting this way because we were together but that doesn't mean he can't love his child. I feel for you girl. You stuck by him & for him to say something like that like its just nothing is so wrong. I definitely agree with your decision 100% i hope all goes well with you too & your baby girl!  

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" if he's not in the picture he shouldn't have a say IMO"