potty problems

My 3 1/2 year old is well passed potty trained beside when it comes to wiping her butt. She doesn't tell us when she has to go to the potty but we know when she goes because she wont flush either, then we know she doesn't wipe. What did other moms do to get there kids to wipe and flush?

I pay attention to when he goes in there and remind him to wipe his butt. Or when he comes out I ask if he remembered to wipe his butt.

Kyle is almost 4. he wont wipe himself either. i bought flushables wipes to try to help him. he attempts to wipe but i still have to go after him and clean up wha he didnt get

my son is in the potty training phase and when ever we go together he has to have his one tp to wipe lol

My kid wont even tell me when she is going. She is very independent and wont let us in the room or i would have no problem going in a wiping her.

Quoting Brandi Lynn White:" My kid wont even tell me when she is going. She is very independent and wont let us in the room or i would have no problem going in a wiping her. "

Well don't you know WHEN she is going to the bathroom? It is really easy to know when my son goes because things get quiet and he obviously isn't playing. If you know when she goes then when she gets out ask if she wiped her butt and flushed the toilet. Explain that it is yucky to just leave it there.