Thanks Ladies

Quoting Momma x 2:" I dunno....to me personally if a guys only downfall is his income, then its a pretty heartless reason to break up with somebody."

Quoting Mrs cree:" I'm sure there were other reasons as well besides his employment issues people can be amazing parents but not great partners"

Quoting Momma x 2:" I dunno....to me personally if a guys only downfall is his income, then its a pretty heartless reason ... [snip!] ... heartless reason to break up with somebody. Especially if he loves both your children (I'm assuming the oldest isn't his?)"

Quoting Mommy to Boys!:" Ultimatum?"

Quoting Lovenikbean:" No she's not his...And this is why I feel guilty because I do feel it's heartless. I have no other reason to leave  "

Quoting Mrs cree:" I'm sure there were other reasons as well besides his employment issues people can be amazing parents but not great partners"

Quoting :*:CHRiSTiNe:*::" Youre not wrong at all. If he doesnt try hard enough then thats on him. I wouldnt stay either, it actually ... [snip!] ... be an "us". Im not saying he needs to support everyone and work his ass off 24/7 but if he cant atleast chip in then Im out."

Quoting Summerfrost:" Being a good dad isn't the only reason you should stay with someone. You have to love the person too ... [snip!] ... and anger. That's more damaging to your children than splitting up. If you stay with him, do it for the right reasons."