Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" It seems like all the men my age or slightly older are turned off by me having a daughter. They're also ... [snip!] ... dating that much older, it doesn't bother me. But I'm afraid people would think I was a gold-digger or he was a pervert. "
Quoting -C.Lit- :" SO is 13 years older. my ex was 12 y / older i think it depends. i totally dont get girls ... [snip!] ... get girls up to 16 dating guys 28+ dont know why its just...weird, probably cause up to 16 they are still kids in my eyes..."I can agree with that. I might have a heart attack if my 15-year-old daughter said she was dating someone that much older than her. But when it's between two consenting adults, I don't think it matters.
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" I have no interest in older men. I like guys my age or a little older, or younger. lol "
Quoting Momma x 2:" All previous boyfriends: Anywhere from a few months older - 3 years Husband: 10 years older, first ... [snip!] ... for some reason I would never, ever, ever date somebody younger than me, I'm not sure why, it was always just a turn off to me."
Quoting Luz Jimenez:" I don't think so. My husband and i are 10 years apart and his parents are 15 years apar. It all depends ... [snip!] ... men/women NOT ALL ARE LIKE THAT (just an idea ) we have been together for 4 years and until now we get along very well ."
Quoting FaithLovesBaby:" I don't mind him not wanting to go out or party. That's what I'm looking for. I don't know how to word ... [snip!] ... he might be 'too old' if we wanted more kids. Not too old to have them, but it might be hard for him to run and play with them."
Quoting Momma x 2:" I get what you mean, but age doesn't determine that....health does. I know plenty of early 20 year ... [snip!] ... olds who run 5 miles a day and do marathons and crazy smurf like that....so "age" has nothing to do with that in my opinion."