seriously???? LONG vent.

Uuuuugggggghhhhhhh!!!!!!!

I swear Hubby has woke me up EVERY morning this week... And last too i think! I cant remember cause my days are running together! Why wake me up? Do you think i sleep peacefully at night? Um... No. I wake up at least 5 times to pee.... I am due next week and my body hurts when i move! So why is it SO important that i wake up when u do?? Its NOT!

I am not your mom.... U can pack your own lunch. I have 5 kids and 1 on the way i have to prepare for daily.
Youve been an ass. Are u on your period or something? Why would i go out of my way to make your coffee for you? Who makes MY coffee?
I cant remember the last time you even offered to make dinner or give the younger kids a bath... I guess u think cause u go outside the home to work that you get to rest when your home.... Um no. I work from the time i get up to the time i go to bed. ) big family is a constant full time job!

I am seriously aggrevated! We have sex like once a week... If that. He says hes "tired". Seriously? You get to have worry free sex for a very limited time now yet your "tired"?? Whatever dude. Im ove u making me feel like im not good enough. Like im just a maid or nanny. Sure... We get along great most of the time. But maybe thats not enough. Maybe i need to feel attractive while im pregnant with OUR kid.... AGAIN!

I swear ladies... Im gonna end up pulling a crazy pregnant white girl punch him in the u know whats kind of move!

Just a vent! Im tired.. wanna have this baby... And stressed. Uugghhh.

Bitchy much..? Lol

Just take a chill pill and relax.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" Bitchy much..? Lol Just take a chill pill and relax."</blockquote>




Lol... Yes i am. It just aggrevates me that he does this crap. Usually i keep my cool and stay calm but i just couldnt today. Im exhausted. He just has no clue.
Yet.. a few weeks ago he had to have surgery cause of kidney stones... Guess who took care of him? Me. It would just be nice to feel appreciated sometimes. U know??

Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" Bitchy much..? Lol Just take a chill pill and ... [snip!] ... cause of kidney stones... Guess who took care of him? Me. It would just be nice to feel appreciated sometimes. U know??"

Well talk to him about it in a nicer tone.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" Well talk to him about it in a nicer tone."</blockquote>




A nicer tone? Whats nicer than no tone. I didnt say anything to him about it. Thats what im saying... Im just too nice of a person. I vent other ways... Im not too confrontational. I keep peace as long as i can. But we will be talking about it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" Bitchy much..? Lol Just take a chill pill and ... [snip!] ... cause of kidney stones... Guess who took care of him? Me. It would just be nice to feel appreciated sometimes. U know??"</blockquote>




It must be extremely hard with 5 and 1 on the way. He needs to help out at least a little or after the little ones are asleep give you attention or appreciate what you have done. Maybe you should leave the kiddos with him and go pamper yourself on one of his days off and let him see first hand how much a sahm has to work

<blockquote><b>Quoting Laythens Mama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" ... [snip!] ... leave the kiddos with him and go pamper yourself on one of his days off and let him see first hand how much a sahm has to work"</blockquote>




Good idea. Maybe ill plan something for Saturday. If nothing else maybe a pedicure will help start labor... Lol! Thanks for understanding my vent.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Laythens Mama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy ... [snip!] ... something for Saturday. If nothing else maybe a pedicure will help start labor... Lol! Thanks for understanding my vent."</blockquote>




Not a problem. Being a mommy is the hardest job I couldn't even begin to imagine 5 times over

What an ass... you need all the rest you can get! I/d be irritated too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting VeggieBurglar:</b>" What an ass... you need all the rest you can get! I/d be irritated too."</blockquote>




I agree

Quoting *Turtles*:" Well talk to him about it in a nicer tone."

Or he could just stop being a selfish smurf.

I'm sorry he's being that way OP. I hate it when men think that just because they work, that they don't have as much responsibility to their home life.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" Bitchy much..? Lol Just take a chill pill and relax."</blockquote>




Way to offer reasonable advice....you have obviously never been hugely pregnant with MULTIPLE young children to care for all day every day. That can be enough to drive a person absolutely crazy, even with some help!

Your doing a great job OP! 5 is a big family and you are so close! I would have lost it long before now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting JustDucky:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" Bitchy much..? Lol Just take a chill pill and ... [snip!] ... with some help! Your doing a great job OP! 5 is a big family and you are so close! I would have lost it long before now."</blockquote>




Thank u! And thank u to all ladies that understand having to vent sometimes! I really do try to keep my cool.... And i DO appreciate all he does by working. I know his job isnt easy... But damn. Let a pregnant woman sleep. I only have "hopefully" a few "more peaceful" nights before #6 is here!
Im gonna talk to him about it. Calmly yes. But i will be getting my point across and hopefully sleep til 7 tomorrow since thats when i get up with the older kids.
Thanks again.

Everyone is allowed to have a vent/ bitch/ moan now and then, without having someone to jump their smurf for it.

OP, 5 kids and 1 on the way- vent away. You've earned it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Idlehands:</b>" Everyone is allowed to have a vent/ bitch/ moan now and then, without having someone to jump their smurf for it. OP, 5 kids and 1 on the way- vent away. You've earned it. "</blockquote>




Thank you! I might take u up on the vent away part after being woke up at 530 and now my 10 and 8 year old girls are arguing.... Uugghh... I just need a vacation. I dont care where cause it would be filled with bubble baths... Books... And sleep!! Lol