Quoting I can see you:" I know I've commented on this before... ignore them. Those who have their "person" are always quick ... [snip!] ... are supposed to suffer alone, in silence, no fun, never go out, and certainly never date or fall in love. smurf them all! lol"
I know. People seem to have this idea that because someone is doing it alone, that they have to punish themselves. It's ridiculous and I'm sick of it. I've done everything I can for her, to the point of making myself physically ill because I refused help with her. I've been told it's okay to take time to myself, that if I want an hour to myself here or there not to be afraid to ask for help.... but oh no, wanting a guy around? Where in the smurf did her priorities go!