re: irritated w/ husband!! :/

posted 10th Oct

Quoting The cake is a lie:" LOL. Do it ASAP "

I think I might. grrrr. I have zero sweets in the house right now so I think I am going to stop at the grocery store tomorrow and get me something. maybe one of those 100 calorie sweet snacks thingys better for me than an entire box of ding dongs and will relieve the craving

I have 5 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Surprise, Arizona

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Meow!

posted 10th Oct

Quoting My Lil' Monsters:" I think I might. grrrr. I have zero sweets in the house right now so I think I am going to stop at the ... [snip!] ... maybe one of those 100 calorie sweet snacks thingys better for me than an entire box of ding dongs and will relieve the craving"

LOL. yeah. I wa craving so much for the choco cake. I had sent hubby out around 11pm to get me it.

posted 10th Oct

Quoting The cake is a lie:" LOL. yeah. I wa craving so much for the choco cake. I had sent hubby out around 11pm to get me it. "

OMG girl thats it I am logging off of here and going to the store...

I have 5 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Surprise, Arizona

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★ Raych ★

5298 posts

posted 10th Oct

Quoting The cake is a lie:" LOL. yeah. I wa craving so much for the choco cake. I had sent hubby out around 11pm to get me it. "

Cake Porn

quote smurfs?

I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Roanoke, Virginia

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Meow!

posted 10th Oct

Quoting My Lil' Monsters:" OMG girl thats it I am logging off of here and going to the store..."

do it!! you live in Surprise?

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Cynthia Stevenson

184 posts

posted 10th Oct

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amanda&&Jaiden ♥:</b>" He has turned into a straight a**hole the past 2 years. Since we had our daughter i feel like I am a ... [snip!] ... year wedding anniversary is in exactly 2 weeks and I dont feel one bit of happiness or excitement!! PATHETIC!!! **end vent**"</blockquote>

I had the same problem, kind of. I was with the same guy for 4 years(never married) and he was the same way. We lived with my parents and had 2 kids plus my brother and his family lived there as well the only difference was the man I was with refused to get off his a** to get a job. All he would ever do was sleep and eat. Wouldn't help with the kids, or laundry, or dishes or well any thing he slept all the time. My parents bought us a car and well I drove it once lol he would take off to his dads house and always leave us behind. So at lease you husband has a job. I of course got rid of his a** lmao

I'm due October 19th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Elko, Nevada

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My Lil' Monsters

4130 posts

posted 10th Oct

Quoting The cake is a lie:" do it!! you live in Surprise? "

Yes. PS logged off last night and went to the store and bought a small chocolate cake...shared it with the kids and OMG felt like I was in heaven! =)

I have 5 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Surprise, Arizona

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Meow!

posted 10th Oct

Quoting My Lil' Monsters:" Yes. PS logged off last night and went to the store and bought a small chocolate cake...shared it with the kids and OMG felt like I was in heaven! =)"

rawr! i just woke up and now i want a piece of mines bwhahah

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Colton's Butterfly

796 posts

posted 10th Oct

Honestly, I'd be thankful for every moment of it.

I remember the first three years of my marriage were a bit rocky. It's all about learning to work with each other for the benefit of your relationship. Counseling is an asset.It can reveal things that neither of you knew about your relationship. Another good idea is sitting him down and telling him specifically what you need of him. (Watch daughter for half hour, take out the garbage, fold the laundry) Guys can often be clueless and not know what you want of them. A little bit of communication that doesn't involve yelling can help.

Trust me, you don't know what you've got until it's gone. I lost my husband last August, and I would give anything to get into a good spat with him. So fight with passion!

I'm adopting October 9th '13 (a girl), have 1 child & live in Toronto, Ontario

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Meow!

posted 10th Oct

Quoting Colton's Butterfly:" Honestly, I'd be thankful for every moment of it. I remember the first three years of my marriage were ... [snip!] ... it's gone. I lost my husband last August, and I would give anything to get into a good spat with him. So fight with passion! "

She said everytime she tries to talk to him, he blows it out. And just fights her.
so imo sounds like he doesnt even give a smurf to hear what she has to say.

But I totally agree. Everyone should be thankful and all, but when someone doesnt care enough to show, theres only so much you can do. Especially she's been putting up with it for 2 yrs. :'(

quote smurfs?

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Cynthia Stevenson

184 posts

posted 10th Oct

<blockquote><b>Quoting The cake is a lie:</b>" She said everytime she tries to talk to him, he blows it out. And just fights her. so imo sounds ... [snip!] ... someone doesnt care enough to show, theres only so much you can do. Especially she's been putting up with it for 2 yrs. :'("</blockquote>

I agree. She shouldn't put up with it..... It gets to be to much with a child and if all he wants to do is yell then it's not good for the child either

I'm due October 19th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Elko, Nevada

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Amanda&&Jaiden ♥

57 posts

posted 11th Oct

Quoting Colton's Butterfly:" Honestly, I'd be thankful for every moment of it. I remember the first three years of my marriage were ... [snip!] ... it's gone. I lost my husband last August, and I would give anything to get into a good spat with him. So fight with passion! "

I love him dearly and I can't even begin to think of how it would be without him here. But i do try and sit him down to talk with him and I do try to have him help me, every time he "helps" me it's half a**ed, or he does it for a second then just stops. Its like I have absolutely no help at all.

I have 1 child & live in Tracy, California

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Supermoma

1 posts

posted 11th Oct

I have been in ur shoes and I am going on 9 yrs together, t months married and two kids. With our first son we lived with his family for a couple of years and let me tell u that caused a whirl wind of problems. When u are a wife u need to feel like the queen of the house when u are a family. And ur husband needs to feel like the king and not a quest. I know that living with family is just temporary for u guys but until u make that move out u need to remember that u are a couple. Marriage is very hard at times but it is sticking thru the good times and hard times that make it worth it. U need date nights and to do stuff just as a family of three sometimes. I have so much past experience that might help u if u want it. Just keep ur head up!