if you gave your baby up for adoption.

I am currently round abouts 4 weeks pregnant and in no position to have anpther baby... but I don't have it in me to abort, so adoption is my next option I supposr and I can't imagine handing my baby over to someom after I carry him/her. I want to do what is best for my fetus and my ds... I know its early, but I have to figure this out at some point in the next 9 months if I dont terminate or miscarry. Any advice on this situation... I am sick to my stomach thinking about it. And for the record I was getting readh to get a non hormonal bc do to an abnormal lump in my breast and me not bring able to take hormones.

Maybe go ahead and look into adoption but its still early, maybe your situation will improve and you'll be able to parent? Try not to stress to much.

I have a 3 ywar old, I'm living back would th my mom, and currently finishing my ged process. Not to mention so lives 5 hours away. I know I could get my smurf together on 9 months, I just don't knoe if that is the best for my son and I don't know. Its so heart breaking to me I tried to avoid pregnancy, but we all know stuff happens, I don't want this baby or my son to suffer or have less than they deserve

<blockquote><b>Quoting sua madre bella:</b>" I have a 3 ywar old, I'm living back would th my mom, and currently finishing my ged process. Not to ... [snip!] ... to avoid pregnancy, but we all know stuff happens, I don't want this baby or my son to suffer or have less than they deserve"</blockquote>




Yeah, I understand that. All mothers want their babies to have the best. 😃 Maybe talking with an adoption agency and learning about the process and such will ease your mind? I mean you can always look into it but then not go through with it you know.

Where in Oregon are you? Part of me wants to say I'd LOVE to adopt your baby. Is that creepy?

<blockquote><b>Quoting TTCbbno5:</b>" Where in Oregon are you? Part of me wants to say I'd LOVE to adopt your baby. Is that creepy?"</blockquote>



I'm in Southern Oregon. SO hates the idea, but he supports me. I don't know if its creepy bit you can always pm me.

I live in Nor Cal.. We're close!

Quoting sua madre bella:" I am currently round abouts 4 weeks pregnant and in no position to have anpther baby... but I don't have ... [snip!] ... record I was getting readh to get a non hormonal bc do to an abnormal lump in my breast and me not bring able to take hormones.".

im glad that you are looking into all your options . i cant tell you i know how you feel cause i dont but you will do what is right. there are tons of ladies like me out there who would make great mothers but sadly its not easy or possible for us to so we rely on women who do chose adoption. i hope whatever decision you do make you are happy with  

I understand that there are plenty of woman who would kill to have a healthy pregnancy or one at all and then here I go getting pregnant on accident.. I feel guilty, but I'm trying to make the best choice for me and my son. Thank you for everyone's kind words.

Quoting sua madre bella:" I understand that there are plenty of woman who would kill to have a healthy pregnancy or one at all ... [snip!] ... on accident.. I feel guilty, but I'm trying to make the best choice for me and my son. Thank you for everyone's kind words."

dont feel guilty . things happen and you have to do what is best for you and your family

<blockquote><b>Quoting sua madre bella:</b>" I understand that there are plenty of woman who would kill to have a healthy pregnancy or one at all ... [snip!] ... on accident.. I feel guilty, but I'm trying to make the best choice for me and my son. Thank you for everyone's kind words."</blockquote>




It'll be okay. First is first talk to an adoption agency and get more info. God bless and good luck!!!