re: I met a married man online now his wife is threatening me

I will call around in the morning and speak to different lawyers. Thanx ladies. I haven't slept in days because of this  

Does she have your name and address?

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Has anyone of your friends witnessed any of your conversations with him?"

They've seen some of the texts but we usually skype late at night which is why I didn't think he was married. I never saw anyone in his home when we were on webcam

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" Does she have your name and address? "

Yes. He gave her all my information.

Quoting BG Secrets:" I really hope it doesn't come to that. I've been trying to contact him to get him to tell the truth, ... [snip!] ... up from the airport but wasn't able to so he met me at the hotel. The bill is close to $3000 I don't have that kind of money."

Holy smurf.. for a guy with no job and putting that much on a credit card, that sure is ballsy... Wow.

Honestly I think the fact that you went to his area to a hotel he was seen at and recorded at is going to make him look pretty guilty. You didn't just guess where he lived and who the hell steals cc info then takes a trip to the town where the CC came from? His story just looks sketchy from the outside looking in.

Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" Holy smurf.. for a guy with no job and putting that much on a credit card, that sure is ballsy... Wow."

!!

Quoting BG Secrets:" I will call around in the morning and speak to different lawyers. Thanx ladies. I haven't slept in days because of this  "

It's probably worth it to his wife to pursue it. It's grounds for her to file for divorce and not have to pay him alimony.

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Honestly I think the fact that you went to his area to a hotel he was seen at and recorded at is going ... [snip!] ... steals cc info then takes a trip to the town where the CC came from? His story just looks sketchy from the outside looking in."

agreed.. it's just a matter of the wife realizing this.. unfortunately she won't. After being together 8yrs, she'll believe anything(or so it seems)

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Honestly I think the fact that you went to his area to a hotel he was seen at and recorded at is going ... [snip!] ... steals cc info then takes a trip to the town where the CC came from? His story just looks sketchy from the outside looking in."

definitely agree to all of this!

Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" Holy smurf.. for a guy with no job and putting that much on a credit card, that sure is ballsy... Wow."

The flight + hotel was more than a grand.   I should have listened to my first instincts and not used the CC at all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" Yes. He gave her all my information."</blockquote>

I think if this went in for months, buying things etc, log into the accounts you ordered from and print off proof of how long this went on for. It will prove that he knew you were purchasing a things, as they would have been on the credit card statement they were paying. And the trip will be documented as he purchased since he had to show the card upon check in for authorization. Get records from the stay. I think she wants one one to blame and pay, but it's going to be her husband. I seriously doubt there is a case against you.

Quoting BG Secrets:" The flight + hotel was more than a grand.   I should have listened to my first instincts and not used the CC at all."

and the other 2 grand was things you bought online and had sent to your house?

Quoting BG Secrets:" The flight + hotel was more than a grand.   I should have listened to my first instincts and not used the CC at all."

I can't believe that he didn't even think that his wife wouldn't see it...knowing she pays everything. That's just craziness.

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Honestly I think the fact that you went to his area to a hotel he was seen at and recorded at is going ... [snip!] ... steals cc info then takes a trip to the town where the CC came from? His story just looks sketchy from the outside looking in."

I really don't see how she can believe him. I have mail that he sent me with the lingerie with their address on it so I don't see how she can believe I "surprised" him. I don't know if he's denying the relationship happened. He's just denying he gave me the credit card to use more than once and that's what scares me the most since I don't have proof that he did give me permission to use it. I bought a good amount of stuff with it so he might have to tell the truth for the flight and hotel but what am I supposed to do about the other stuff I bought?