Hello

This is the only place I feel would be right.
Some things have come up, and I am really needing advice. My family would not be helpful at all, in fact they would probably disown me. I need to get an abortion soon, I really would like to talk to someone who has had one. Heres a few of my questions, and please no bashing.
1.) Why did you choose to get an abortion?
2.) Why couldn't you choose adoption?
3.) How far along were you?
4.) How much did it cost?

My reason for asking was because, like I said, I need to get one. It would be the best for me and my husband right now. So we could finish school, and honestly we do not have the money to raise a child.
I couldn't choose adoption, because I know I would probably get attached to the baby, and knowing someone else out there has it. A little selfish, I am aware of this.

Quoting Fly*Above*Me:" I am not trying to be rude but isn't it selfish on your part to have unprotected sex and get pregnant ... [snip!] ... And it saves you the guilt of killing a unborn child. I would rather have the peace of mind that I did the right thing."

You are being rude and bias.
Please take your pro-life ramblings else where. Thank you.

Quoting Fly*Above*Me:"

This is a protected forum. You need to remove this.

Fly above me, you can't have that post here. Delete it please, this is a protected forum.

I did adoption and abortion.

I would do abortion again. I would never do adoption ever again...

and oh this is a protected forum. No "killing babies" talk.

1) I chose mine so I could get myself more grounded and happier and take care of my daughter and my family before bring another life into this world.
2) I watched alot of adoptions videos on youtube and I thought about it alot. I just know im not strong enough, I already have a child and it would be so hard for me to give up another baby i bounded with for 9 months. (selfish I know but sometimes you need to think about yourself and only that)
3) I was 8 1/2 weeks along
4) Mine costed nothing I went to planned parenthood.

I appologize I didn't realize this was a protected forum because she posted the link to this in another section of the site. I'm new to this site & have no idea how to remove my comment? Even though I didn't say anything I still would like to remove it out of respect.

Quoting ceci'smommy:" 1) I chose mine so I could get myself more grounded and happier and take care of my daughter and my family ... [snip!] ... need to think about yourself and only that) 3) I was 8 1/2 weeks along 4) Mine costed nothing I went to planned parenthood. "

If you don't mind me asking..how did it cost nothing?
and I agree with you 100%.

Quoting GrumpsMama.:" If you don't mind me asking..how did it cost nothing? and I agree with you 100%."

Um well I live in Santa Cruz CA I guess the planned parenthood has really great funding here,

<blockquote><b>Quoting Colton's Mommy ❤:</b>" I appologize I didn't realize this was a protected forum because she posted the link to this in another ... [snip!] ... site & have no idea how to remove my comment? Even though I didn't say anything I still would like to remove it out of respect."</blockquote>



Look at the top of your post, the edit word click it and you can erase your post.

Quoting ceci'smommy:" 1) I chose mine so I could get myself more grounded and happier and take care of my daughter and my family ... [snip!] ... need to think about yourself and only that) 3) I was 8 1/2 weeks along 4) Mine costed nothing I went to planned parenthood. "

What??! Yours cost nothing? Mine was cost 350. And the other one with funding was going to cost 98...

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" What??! Yours cost nothing? Mine was cost 350. And the other one with funding was going to cost 98... "

Yea I dont know everything there is free, I got birthcontrol while i was a teen it was always free I just applied for there "green card" or whatever.

Quoting ceci'smommy:" Yea I dont know everything there is free, I got birthcontrol while i was a teen it was always free I just applied for there "green card" or whatever. "

BC here used to be free.
& on top of that, Oklahoma probably makes you pay more for an abortion. Because of Oklahoma and the bible belt.