re: Hello

Quoting GrumpsMama.:" BC here used to be free. & on top of that, Oklahoma probably makes you pay more for an abortion. Because of Oklahoma and the bible belt."

yea I heard its like that in alot of places, I heard Texas doesnt even have planned parenthoods anymore.
But Cali is different and Santa Cruz is near San Francisco, so we are pretty much the most liberal of the bunch.

Do what is best for you. It is a tough decision so really think about why you want to do it.



I hate when people bring up the women who can not have kids. Although sad situation for them it is not the op's problem they have fertility issues.

Quoting GrumpsMama.:" If you don't mind me asking..how did it cost nothing? and I agree with you 100%."

here in Wa state the state will cover the cost at certain clinics

Do whatever is best for you op. I chose to get one because I was young and didn't know if I could handle the responsibility of a baby at that time well and my bf at the time basically convinced me that it was the only option. I didn't choose adoption because I cant give away an animal let alone a child I have carried for 9 months. I was about 8 almost 9 weeks along. And it was $450 cash no credit cards or checks and no organization to help with cost. Good luck op on whatever decision you decide to make it can be difficult.

1.) Why did you choose to get an abortion? I already have 2 kids and my husband and I are just starting school, just starting to look at new houses, we barely have money for the two kids we have now.
2.) Why couldn't you choose adoption? Same reason most people don't..they would get attached....I'd rather just get an abortion and be done with it and"pretend like it never happened"I think if I gave my child up for adoption, I would be feeling sad everyday for the rest of my life.
3.) How far along were you? 5 weeks
4.) How much did it cost? 300