I think it's over...

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I think it was over a long time ago, girl. You should never let a man speak to you that way or let you feel that way. If you're so fat and horrible, why is he with you!? I don't think you need him. You're fat and horrible, yet....He still wants you to suck his dick when he wants it? That man sounds like a tool and it sounds like he's just using you.

You deserve better then that. No one should be treated that way.

Wow. No one deserves to be talked to that way. That is mental abuse at it's best! You should tell him (since you want it to work) that he is hurting your feelings and that he cannot talk to you like that anymore. If that don't work I would just leave. I'm sorry he makes you feel that way. Good job on the 31 lbs by the way. Keep up the good work!!

Wow what a man...sounds more like a boy. Just get out of all that. I would never let dh talk to me like that. Your losing weight and he should be proud of that. Being mean like that is just wrong.

Next time he wants head hold his dick hostage with you teeth 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" I think it was over a long time ago, girl. You should never let a man speak to you that way or let you ... [snip!] ... still wants you to suck his dick when he wants it? That man sounds like a tool and it sounds like he's just using you."</blockquote>


That's what I feel he's doing.
I just feel horrible.  

wow, I wouldn't be nice to give my husband a blow job especially with him being an ass like that. I'd bite him and punch him in the balls before I knelt down to suck his penis. What an ass, time to move on to someone who is going to treat you how you SHOULD be treated, like a human being. Jeez, he's lucky he gets anything, I don't do that for my husband, we barely have sex. It's amazing we have 2 kids. We'd rather just sit and watch t.v. together and talk then to have sex and be bored after. I'd say it's time to leave.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tattooed Mommy to Be:</b>" Wow. No one deserves to be talked to that way. That is mental abuse at it's best! You should tell him ... [snip!] ... don't work I would just leave. I'm sorry he makes you feel that way. Good job on the 31 lbs by the way. Keep up the good work!!"</blockquote>


There's nothing I can do or say to make him stop talking to me like that. Except BJs but sometimes I just don't want to do those.
Which is most of the time.... lol

Quoting Mommy2a Prince&Princess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tattooed Mommy to Be:</b>" Wow. No one deserves to be talked ... [snip!] ... him stop talking to me like that. Except BJs but sometimes I just don't want to do those. Which is most of the time.... lol"

A woman should never have to suck a man's dick so he doesn't say mean things to her. That's emotional abuse at it's best.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amanda Contento:</b>" wow, I wouldn't be nice to give my husband a blow job especially with him being an ass like that. I'd ... [snip!] ... 2 kids. We'd rather just sit and watch t.v. together and talk then to have sex and be bored after. I'd say it's time to leave. "</blockquote>


Honestly of I left I'd probably never want to be with anyone ever again.

You deserve much better than that.

Tell him he can suck his own dick.

<blockquote><b>Quoting SpaceCowgirl:</b>" You deserve much better than that. Tell him he can suck his own dick."</blockquote>

I'm sure he would if he could.

I don't feel like I deserve better and I feel like a Marriage is forever. I don't want to see something I worked so hard on just fall apart.
But then this is my life. No matter how hard I try or what I do. I still get smurf on and end up with nothing.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" I think it was over a long time ago, girl. You should never let a man speak to you that way or let you ... [snip!] ... still wants you to suck his dick when he wants it? That man sounds like a tool and it sounds like he's just using you."

That may be the way he is controlling her....if she doesn't feel good about herself then she will not have the self esteem to leave. My SO is controlling as well....he does not call me fat just stupid and dumb...then has the nerve to ask why I don't have any self esteem......then if I tell him he turns it around and says I make him do that.........UGH....it will never change TRUST ME!!

Quoting Mommy2a Prince&Princess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SpaceCowgirl:</b>" You deserve much better than that. Tell ... [snip!] ... just fall apart. But then this is my life. No matter how hard I try or what I do. I still get smurf on and end up with nothing."

I know you don't want to see things "fall apart" but sweetie they already fell apart. What he is doing is emotional and sexual abuse here. he is using you