Need Advice

I am 18 weeks and im doing it all alone. My bd left me and baby and wants nothing to do with us. how am i suppose to deal with all of this, im haveing a hard time dealing, with haveing to be a single parent and haveing to get a job and buy all my baby stuff its hard. somebody help

Take him to court for Child support ASAP. Do your parents help with anything?

I'm sorry you have to do this on your own. Do you have parents or friends that will help you out?

well he lives in nebraska and flew me back to were my family live and yes my mom is helping me the most but my emotions are goiin crazy cuz of everything and i cant do that intill after babys born

Quoting Leigha Jai:" well he lives in nebraska and flew me back to were my family live and yes my mom is helping me the most but my emotions are goiin crazy cuz of everything and i cant do that intill after babys born"

I know but make sure you do it asap cuz that will be the biggest help to you and your baby. I know it seems overwhelming right now but there are single moms everywhere making it. It's scary but just take it a day at a time. Everything will work out just fine

I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm 18 weeks pregnant, and my baby's dad isn't involved at all. Actually, he has another girl pregnant too and he is with her.   It's completely stressfull, but I've been trying to take things one day at a time... I tell myself, just get through this day, things will be better in the long run. But I have been struggling to keep myself sane in all of this

am thats what im trying to do but im haveing such a hard time, i feel like im going crazy, this is my first child and i dont know how im going to do it alone but i konw im goin to its just so hard and idk what to do

I know, it's sooo hard. I'm pregnant with #2 and am still single. I know how it was the first time I was pregnant, and BD left me... I was a wreck. But after some time passed it got easier. I do it all alone. I get no child support, because I dont think he is a good person and don't want him around my daughter, plus he has shown NO effort at all. It's extremely hard to know that my daughter isn't going to have a dad around full-time, but like I said I get through things one day at a time. I was completely over my first BD, and now this is happening again. Just lean on ur friends and fam for support. Keep urself busy. There are plenty of single mamas out there, and with time it does get easier. PM me if u wanna chat