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((hugs))

I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of that. Whatever happens, you can make it through.. just focus on the kids and be the best mother you can be.

im sorry you've got to deal with that. :[ just take it day by day and sometime, your mind can trick you into thinking that you've got pregnancy symptoms if you think about it long enough.
personally, id keep the doors locked and if he's got a key, change the locks. and i would press charges anyway. im sure you can prove that you are a good mother, but at the same time, i certainly understand you being afraid.
until you can get everything sorted out, just keep your house locked down and the phone ready just in case. i know its hard living in your own home terrified, but you'll get through it. /hugs

I'm so sorry you're going through this hugs your way

Im sorry that happened to you. How are the kids dealing with it? My ex also strangled me when i was pregnant with dd#2 & it took me a long time even after that to finally leave him. I hope your ok & while being a single parent to 3 kids is hard its not impossible

honey dont feel bad. you should have pressed charges on him. if you are a great mother what are you afraid of? and if you are pregnant id choose abortion if i were in your shoes. i wouldng want another chid to tie me to the sob.

You did the right thing! I hope he never comes back

But why would you have to stay with him if you are pregnant? It's not easy but there are plenty of single moms with 3 or more out there

You don't have to take him back, even if you are pregnant and want to keep the baby

Though, if it were me, I'd abort.


Also, they won't take your kids if he comes back. But they would if you LET him come back and you take him back and keep your kids in that environment

<blockquote><b>Quoting I can see you:</b>" ((hugs)) I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of that. Whatever happens, you can make it through.. just focus on the kids and be the best mother you can be."</blockquote>




Your avi creeps me out

thank you ladies, its just my heads all over the place, i'm sure as soon as everything has settled down, i will be thinking more clearly

If you called the police, child services would be already notified, pressed charges or not. I really wished you would have pressed charges, so the next woman he decides to hit can get him locked up for good...because this will NEVER stop.

I would also test before jumping to conclusions, but I would abort if I were you. Those children do not need to be around him and if you do go back with him and I hope you realize social services would be doing the right thing by taking them out of there if you were go back to him.

I would put a restraining order on him, file for custody and then press charges on him. Do it the smart way.

Social may get involved but if you do all that they have no reason to take the kids. Plus they will help you keep him away. Kwim?

If your a good mom they will see that. Someone will just come to make sure the kids are save from him and that you are protecting them and yourself.

I'm srry you.are going through this. Chin up things will be OK.

update - he has been found and arrested - police have took matters into their own hands, they said it was too serious to ignore and have arrested him on suspicion of assault whether or not i wanted to press charges or not

Quoting Misty Walls:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I can see you:</b>" ((hugs)) I'm so sorry you're dealing ... [snip!] ... can make it through.. just focus on the kids and be the best mother you can be."</blockquote> Your avi creeps me out"

lol, yea, great itns' it