Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" I'm a full time student, it counts as if I was working. There is a name for it but I can't remember right now. Its too late for me to be awake but I can't sleep."
Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" I never said I liked his decision lol. Nor that I don't want him to pay CS. I just don't want to be ... [snip!] ... the one paying it because I have my own child to take care of. Sorry if I read what you said wrong. I'm really tired >_<"
Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" I know, idk its hard to explain how my brain figures this out. A lot of it is influenced by my mum who ... [snip!] ... don't have a connection. That doesn't mean that when we get him I will treat him any different but to me its not the same yet."
Quoting Is that still my name?:" What YOU Need to do is STOP comparing pepople (including yourself and your BD) to other people and ... [snip!] ... maybe that's why you are settling. Once you start living for YOU and trusting yourself, things will become much more clear."
Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" I know I do, I'm working on that. I don't think I"m settling. I don't see what that matters as long as I'm taking care of my DS."
Quoting Is that still my name?:" Well then, that's not a topic I want to get on... lol"
Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" lol we've been a bit deeper than I meant to go all ready. Thank you for your opinion though, I appreciate it "