Quoting ♥ Crabigail's Mom:" yeah, I guess I'm just scared. Plus our daughter is old enough now to kind of understand what is going on, so I'm worried about how all this would affect her if it didn't work out. "
Just take it slow, and try to limit how mushy you guys act around her, because that would really confuse her if you guys decide you WERE right to end it the first time. Her daddy didn't disappear the first time, and shes too young to actually grasp the situation. So just take it slow and you'll be fine.