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You said the marriage ended because he needed to grow up ... well it sounds like he has somewhat. Listen to your heart, and do whats best for you and your daughter. You love him, and he seems to still love you. You aren't crazy for getting back with him if you feel he's grown up and a different person.

listen t your heart, do what makes you happy. if you really think he changed go for it, start slow go back to being just boyfriend and girlfriend. do counseling also maybe it will help. you never know till you try. and if it doesn't work out at least you tried one more time for you and for your daughter. good luck i hope all goes well.

I would be willing to give it a try. I know that I personally could never get back with someone who cheated on me, was a smurffy co-parent, or was abusive but people definitely grow up. I'd take it slow and may consider counseling, but I'd probably do it. Good luck.

Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" You said the marriage ended because he needed to grow up ... well it sounds like he has somewhat. Listen ... [snip!] ... and he seems to still love you. You aren't crazy for getting back with him if you feel he's grown up and a different person."

yeah, I guess I'm just scared. Plus our daughter is old enough now to kind of understand what is going on, so I'm worried about how all this would affect her if it didn't work out.

I would give it a second shot, maybe he really has changed. If you still love him go for it, maybe what y'all needed was just a little time apart.


Good luck with whatever you choose. (:

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" You said the marriage ended because he needed to grow up ... well it sounds like he has somewhat. Listen ... [snip!] ... and he seems to still love you. You aren't crazy for getting back with him if you feel he's grown up and a different person."</blockquote>




I agree.

Quoting ♥ Crabigail's Mom:" yeah, I guess I'm just scared. Plus our daughter is old enough now to kind of understand what is going on, so I'm worried about how all this would affect her if it didn't work out. "

Just take it slow, and try to limit how mushy you guys act around her, because that would really confuse her if you guys decide you WERE right to end it the first time. Her daddy didn't disappear the first time, and shes too young to actually grasp the situation. So just take it slow and you'll be fine.

holy crap half my post disappeared somehow. well, I tried to fill it in, hope I got it somewhat right, lol

thanks, guys.