re: I'm butthurt.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Go. The. Smurf. Away. Ever heard of the stages of grief? You repeat the stages several times after the death. One of them being anger. You're being a smurfing smurf, SHUT UP."</blockquote>



No. You are bring a smurf. Hope you don't feel anger for the rest of your life, you will forever miserable. Iv lost my parents, it's really terrible. But I have gone through anger and it has gotten me no where but dark places. You need to pull yourself up, or get help. It sucks and it's smurffy. But being mad he doesn't visit you won't help you.

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" 1) she isnt angry WITH her father. She is angry about the situation. Actually, hurt is a better word. ... [snip!] ... my sister's BIL sent her from his bedroom. He heard something, snapped a pic and caught a civil war soldier. It was...freaky."

I take a million pictures of DD. I figured I'd see something in at least one of them. Never have.
My fan light turns on and off. That's the only thing I can almost hope is a sign, but I highly doubt it. The medium I saw said it was my spirit guide.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Go. The. Smurf. Away. Ever heard ... [snip!] ... places. You need to pull yourself up, or get help. It sucks and it's smurffy. But being mad he doesn't visit you won't help you."

   

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I take a million pictures of DD. I figured I'd see something in at least one of them. Never have. My ... [snip!] ... off. That's the only thing I can almost hope is a sign, but I highly doubt it. The medium I saw said it was my spirit guide."

I dont know about the whole spirit guide thing. Did the fan lights happen after yoru dad's death or anytime before? If it was after...it's probably safe to say it is him.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Go. The. Smurf. Away. Ever heard ... [snip!] ... places. You need to pull yourself up, or get help. It sucks and it's smurffy. But being mad he doesn't visit you won't help you."

I don't feel anger all of the time.
I feel it tonight.
I don't give a smurf how YOU grieved, I really don't. You're not me, so you will not grieve like me.


And no, a smurf would be someone who kicks someone who's smurfing hurt that they haven't felt their dad's presence in 8 years when every other smurfing family member has.

Why won't you just smurfing leave and shut up?

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Sorry I can't be awesome and grieve the way you do. If my dad's anywhere near me he knows I love him ... [snip!] ... just shut the smurf up like I asked instead of continuing to kick someone who's down? Seriously, just leave me the smurf alone."

what kind of closure do you need ?
if you dont mind me asking,
my dad passed away 2 months ago and i just feel like i know i loved him and know he loved me and somewhere he is still watching over me , i talk to him everyday and just by knowing my dad i know what his response to most of the things i tell him would be , i know it hurts because i still cry my dads death almost everyday , but it was time for him to go , and its hard to except but once someone is gone you shouldn't still be trying to communicate with him .... what are some things you feel you need to know ?

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" What's he email address? What do I say? Just the story?"

I found this directly on her website
http://www.theresacaputo.com/contact/
Address:Theresa Caputo
PO Box 490
Hicksville, NY 11802

I did it through her website asking (more like begging lol) for her to do a reading for my family or even just me. I explained the situation regarding how my dad died and everything and I guess it got the attention of the producer so she emailed me back.
I'm currently going through my email but I don't see her email address at this moment in time. If I find it before I go to bed I'll post it.

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" I dont know about the whole spirit guide thing. Did the fan lights happen after yoru dad's death or anytime before? If it was after...it's probably safe to say it is him."

We moved here after, so it was after.
But it wasn't until after I saw the medium and she told me a bunch about the spirit guides.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I don't feel anger all of the time. I feel it tonight. I don't give a smurf how YOU grieved, I really ... [snip!] ... felt their dad's presence in 8 years when every other smurfing family member has. Why won't you just smurfing leave and shut up?"</blockquote>




Well I have two dead parents. I know how it feels and I'm not kicking you while your down, I'm telling you the dead need rest. They do. I'm sorry you think I'm bring a smurf. But some people pass and they just pass on. It's the way it is, that's all. Don't hold it agsinstbyourvdaf.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" We moved here after, so it was after. But it wasn't until after I saw the medium and she told me a bunch about the spirit guides."

I wont say now since you arent in the best mood, but if you ever get a chance...plese fill me in. I have no idea what spirit guides are or what they do.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I don't feel anger all of the time. ... [snip!] ... I'm bring a smurf. But some people pass and they just pass on. It's the way it is, that's all. Don't hold it agsinstbyourvdaf."

You just can't take a hint..
She believes something TOTALLY different than you do obviously. She WANTS to connect with her father- and believes she can & will. You obviously don't agree & the name calling is seriously immature as smurf.

Go somewhere else with your negativity- because she isn't in the mood to hear that smurf. Seriously- how many people need to tell you to STFU & let her alone???  

Quoting iisabell:" what kind of closure do you need ? if you dont mind me asking, my dad passed away 2 months ago and ... [snip!] ... someone is gone you shouldn't still be trying to communicate with him .... what are some things you feel you need to know ?"

Obviously your beliefs differ from mine.
I don't believe that the dead shouldn't ever be contacted, I believe that sometimes the living and the dead need to communicate.

I need to know he's with me in some way. That he didn't just die and forget about me. That he's here with DD and I and he's watching her grow.
I needed to know he watched me grow. That he was there during my rough points. That when I was screaming and begging for just the littlest smurfing sign from him that he was there, that he was trying to show me he was there.

OP- I believe in mediums VERY much so & I really hope that you get that closure that you need from your Dad- soon.. ♥

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" 1) she isnt angry WITH her father. She is angry about the situation. Actually, hurt is a better word. ... [snip!] ... my sister's BIL sent her from his bedroom. He heard something, snapped a pic and caught a civil war soldier. It was...freaky."

omgsh...freaky....
What ever happened to your grandmas house? Did you all move out of it and everything stopped?

Quoting Kiss Kiss Bang Bang:" omgsh...freaky.... What ever happened to your grandmas house? Did you all move out of it and everything stopped?"

We moved out when I was....12? I think,. We were only there a few years. My grandfather moved out because the memories were hard for him. My mom couldnt give the house up to just anyone. But living there made my mom crazy. She ended up in a nuthouse for a short time. After that, my parents divorced. My dad took us and moved. Then once we got the new place, my parents remarried. They are divorced again.