re: I'm butthurt.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Well, then apparently I wasn't ... [snip!] ... dead father. No one knows what happens when we die. You are being resentful for something your dead father can't nut control."

Get the smurf out. Seriously, just shut up.
I'm obviously not in the smurfing mood.

Quoting *Turtles*:" Why not just schedule an appointment with her and see what happens?"

I don't have money to do so. I'm unemployed.
And I'm sure she's smurfing EXPENSIVE.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Get the smurf out. Seriously, just shut up. I'm obviously not in the smurfing mood."</blockquote>




For what the truth? Grieving is terrible, but you are angry at your father for an uncontrolae death? And that he has no control of his afterlife?

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" If I had the money, I would contact her. But what's the point anyway. I saw one medium and he didn't ... [snip!] ... medium and he didn't say anything, why would he this time? Maybe I need to accept he's present for everyone else besides me."

I was offered to be on the show (still working it out) because of the unique characteristics surrounding my fathers death. I'm assuming I don't have to pay, but I would empty my bank account to get some closure.

You can email her and request an appointment. Marni (the producer) decides whether or not it goes on the show or if it is just a regular private reading. It wouldn't hurt to try.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Well, then apparently I wasn't ... [snip!] ... dead father. No one knows what happens when we die. You are being resentful for something your dead father can't nut control."

I don't think it's rude. This is normal behavior for someone who is grieving. I know what the OP is going through, I too lost someone very close to me and it's hard to deal with the loss.

OP- whatever you do, just dont go see a psychic. I did once and they told me I would marry someone named Kevin. For the record, my husband's name is not Kevin. lol

Make sure whoever you plan to see (Medium) that you get reviews on. Dont go to someone who feeds you a load of garbage to get their $9.99 a minute.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Get the smurf out. Seriously, just ... [snip!] ... Grieving is terrible, but you are angry at your father for an uncontrolae death? And that he has no control of his afterlife?"

You're being a bitch. Have you EVER lost someone VERY close to you? It's not easy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" I don't think it's rude. This is normal behavior for someone who is grieving. I know what the OP is going through, I too lost someone very close to me and it's hard to deal with the loss."</blockquote>




Iv lost family too, and I think it's respectful to let them rest in peace. When and if they want to visit they will. But to talk about them with anger is wrong.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Get the smurf out. Seriously, just ... [snip!] ... Grieving is terrible, but you are angry at your father for an uncontrolae death? And that he has no control of his afterlife?"

Sorry I can't be awesome and grieve the way you do. If my dad's anywhere near me he knows I love him and won't give half a smurf.
Why don't you just shut the smurf up like I asked instead of continuing to kick someone who's down? Seriously, just leave me the smurf alone.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Turtles*:</b>" I don't think it's rude. This is normal behavior ... [snip!] ... respectful to let them rest in peace. When and if they want to visit they will. But to talk about them with anger is wrong."

It's called grieving.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Sorry I can't be awesome and grieve the way you do. If my dad's anywhere near me he knows I love him ... [snip!] ... just shut the smurf up like I asked instead of continuing to kick someone who's down? Seriously, just leave me the smurf alone."</blockquote>




Ok. But you are being disrespectful.

Quoting ℳonster's ℳom:" I was offered to be on the show (still working it out) because of the unique characteristics surrounding ... [snip!] ... (the producer) decides whether or not it goes on the show or if it is just a regular private reading. It wouldn't hurt to try."

What's he email address? What do I say? Just the story?

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Sorry I can't be awesome and grieve ... [snip!] ... kick someone who's down? Seriously, just leave me the smurf alone."</blockquote> Ok. But you are being disrespectful."

Go. The. Smurf. Away.

Ever heard of the stages of grief?
You repeat the stages several times after the death. One of them being anger.
You're being a smurfing smurf, SHUT UP.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Sorry I can't be awesome and grieve ... [snip!] ... kick someone who's down? Seriously, just leave me the smurf alone."</blockquote> Ok. But you are being disrespectful."

You're no help to her, seriously GTFO!

Everyone has their own way of grieving. I was angry when my Grandmother passed away. It's normal to feel angry.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" Get the smurf out. Seriously, just ... [snip!] ... Grieving is terrible, but you are angry at your father for an uncontrolae death? And that he has no control of his afterlife?"

1) she isnt angry WITH her father. She is angry about the situation. Actually, hurt is a better word.

2) If a spirit has not crossed over, they do have control of their afterlife. Crossing over is also a choice for them. It means they have no unfinished business here on earth.

However, given that OPs dad death was unexpected...i am going to say he has tons of unfinished business.

OP- what signs are you looking for? sometimes, they are there, but not in the form of a spirit. My grandmother would turn my TV on and off, open and close my bedroom door, and turn decor/furniture around facing the wall. Sometimes if I was quiet, I could hear a sort of breathing noise. Take pics. Lots of pics. Spirits show up in pics. I wish I had that one my sister's BIL sent her from his bedroom. He heard something, snapped a pic and caught a civil war soldier. It was...freaky.