Giving up (advice please).

I am getting extremely aggrivated with my BD. We split up over 2 months ago now, and when we did I lost everything. By everything I mean my home, my job, my security, everything. It left me will piles of debt to my landlord, electric company, water company, phone company, internet company, doctor bills. The goverment assistance I did have for my son and I was yanked the second I reported the changes in my living situation. I am currently living with my mom, step-dad, and little brother on a military base. The house has 4 bedrooms but we are limited to 3 because one room is used for storage (it is packed wall to wall with boxes) which leaves me sharing a room with my little brother and my son and soon to be daughter sharing a room. That's non important really, but last week I discovered my pelvis was dislocated and they think it may possibly be fractured. I am supposed to be resting so that if it fractued it wont turn into a break. Needless to say as a single mom resting has become about as hard has winning the olympics. My mom is a hypochondriac and addicted to pills (we rarely talk), so she sleeps till 1-2 in the afternoon and so the only help I really get is from my step dad when he is home. Then just yesterday I dicovered my mom had stollen 3 of my vicodin prescribed to me and had replaced them with ibprophen. I was livid, and in so much pain and desperate so I asked my BD if he would consider getting Hunter on the weekends, or even just one night out of the weekend. First he said that he wasn't sure because of work, then I told him I could work around work, and then he told me he wasn't sure about how we would do pick up and drop off because my step-dad and him have a no contact order and I told him we could meet him somewhere here on post to drop him off and pick him up, and then he complained about gas and I told him i'd give him gas money and he still had an issue with it. Seriously at this point I am completely done with him, he is always coming up with some excusee. What do I do, what would you do?

Do you talk to your dad? Other family members? Friends? I wouldn't want to stay in the situation you're in if I didn't have to.

Quoting amc ❤:" I am getting extremely aggrivated with my BD. We split up over 2 months ago now, and when we did I lost ... [snip!] ... at this point I am completely done with him, he is always coming up with some excusee. What do I do, what would you do?"

Do you have any close friends that could come over even if it is for a few hours a day?

Quoting JeNnAs MoMoM:" Do you talk to your dad? Other family members? Friends? I wouldn't want to stay in the situation you're in if I didn't have to."

My grandparents have offered for me to move there after my daughter is born so I am really considering it at this point.

Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" Do you have any close friends that could come over even if it is for a few hours a day?"

I have 3 close friends that live near by, one is pregnant and violently ill all the time, one goes to school full time, and the other watches her mothers children. Because she is a single mom of 4.

I would talk to grandparents and explain what is going on and see if you can come live there now

The grandparents sound the most hopeful. Good luck.

Quoting Mrs cree:" I would talk to grandparents and explain what is going on and see if you can come live there now"

I have to wait until winter because my grandfather doesn't get laid off until then and they will have to drive down with a uhal and get me and the kids and all our things, also we don't know how or if my insurace would cover me having a baby there.