Quoting *MamaDobbs*:" How do you tell your husband you want to go see a couples counselor? I love him to the moon and back ... [snip!] ... without sounding like Im considering leaving him. In a way that wont hurt him badly. Any advice would be amazing. TIA<3"
Well for one don't explain it like you did here. Pretty much you seem to imply that it's his problem. You think he has PTSD (meaning you think he's messed up and you've waited and it's no better). Tell him you feel like you quys aren't communicating adn you want to try counseling to see if it can help you both. Don't blame him or make it seem like it's to deal with "his" problem, rather then help for you both.