Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" The other momma's have already given you awesome advice. I just wanted to chime in and say that if he ... [snip!] ... in and say that if he really does have PTSD, time won't make it better. He at least needs counseling, if not the both of you. "
For a while I was lying to myself and trying to convince myself that some of his actions are normal. But then after our son was born a saw a new warmth to him that I have never seen. So I though maybe our son would be all he needed. But the more and more I pay attention to his actions I feel like he is in a dark lonely place that I cant even begin to understand. We both need to talk to someone. Together and separately. He is preparing to deploy again and I cant let him go like this.