Another worry of mine.
Sometimes I need to pick my 2 year old up, how am I suppose to do that!! How many lbs are we allowed to lift after a c-section? I do not remember. And how am I suppose to let her sit and cuddle on my lap?? booooo
I have a 3 year old, and it worked out very well.
Although she is well behaved, and my second c-section went awesome. (It really couldn't have gone any better.)
If need-be, call family to help you out.
Good luck Mamas!