I dont know if ill ever get use to this.

Its beyond creepy seeing pictures of my daughter on a random woman's facebook page saying "my baby girl" and talking to BD about how she wants him to give DD kisses for her.
I dont even know what role this woman plays in my daughter life I have never heard about her and obviously never met her. I just dont know how I will ever get use to that.
I have been dating the same man for a year and he's the only other guy in my DDs life rather then her father. I atleast had enough respect for BD to inform him of SOs part in our daughters life.

Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" Its beyond creepy seeing pictures of my daughter on a random woman's facebook page saying "my baby girl" ... [snip!] ... guy in my DDs life rather then her father. I atleast had enough respect for BD to inform him of SOs part in our daughters life."

Has she met her?

Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" Its beyond creepy seeing pictures of my daughter on a random woman's facebook page saying "my baby girl" ... [snip!] ... guy in my DDs life rather then her father. I atleast had enough respect for BD to inform him of SOs part in our daughters life."

I would not be okay with this. Any other woman that is going to be a part of my child;s life should be introduced to me first. Like you said, its respect.

That smurf wouldn't fly with me. I would demand to meet whom ever my BD was dating.

Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Has she met her?"

I guess so,I dont even know that.
She has a WHOLE album with pictures of DD.

Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" I guess so,I dont even know that. She has a WHOLE album with pictures of DD."

woah wtf this would not be okay with me!

That would make me really uncomfortable too. Do you talk to BD? I would definitely ask about it

Uhmmm.. I'd be meeting this chick before she was around my daughter. that's for damn sure. and I'd be pissed as hell.

eww thats no good. are you on good terms w her dad to talk to him about this?? that is not cool.

Quoting Jenna + 2 Beauties:" woah wtf this would not be okay with me!"

Its NOT okay with me one bit,I just discovered this situation.
I dont keep tabs on BD nor do I usually pay attention to his Facebook but a mutual friend informed me of this.
I went on a hunt,apparently he takes our daughter down to where ever this girl stays when he has her. Doesnt even have enough common courtesy to fill me in on this situation.

Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" I guess so,I dont even know that. She has a WHOLE album with pictures of DD."

Um.......smurf would be flying with me. I do not know how anyone could get used to that  

Iam furious to say the least.
I will be having a conversation with BD,he tries to be sneaky and hide things from me when he has our daughter.
This is just another notch on his immaturity belt.

Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" Its NOT okay with me one bit,I just discovered this situation. I dont keep tabs on BD nor do I usually ... [snip!] ... down to where ever this girl stays when he has her. Doesnt even have enough common courtesy to fill me in on this situation."

You can report the pictures to facebook saying that she does not have permission to post pictures of your underage child on there and they will take them down.

Then, I would be talking to BD about it saying that you should be meeting any new person he is bringing around her. That's insane

Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" Its NOT okay with me one bit,I just discovered this situation. I dont keep tabs on BD nor do I usually ... [snip!] ... down to where ever this girl stays when he has her. Doesnt even have enough common courtesy to fill me in on this situation."

Wow thats messed up.

Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" You can report the pictures to facebook saying that she does not have permission to post pictures of ... [snip!] ... I would be talking to BD about it saying that you should be meeting any new person he is bringing around her. That's insane"

^^^This!!!!!

If I was you I would talk to BD and message her as nicely as possible and try to explain why you feed weird about it, see if she would be willing to meet up with you.