re: I dont know if ill ever get use to this.

Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" Its NOT okay with me one bit,I just discovered this situation. I dont keep tabs on BD nor do I usually ... [snip!] ... down to where ever this girl stays when he has her. Doesnt even have enough common courtesy to fill me in on this situation."

Part of my custody situation with BD is that he has to inform me where hes taking her.. He only gets her a few hours twice a week, so he doesnt really go any where.. BUTTTT maybe you could add that in there?

((hugs))

it hurts... but remember if she's that involved, seh obviously cares about yoru daughter and that's a good thing