Quoting ~Loving Strong~:" ALso if any people have been or is in this kind of relationship I would really like to talk about your ... [snip!] ... talk about your experiences and such. I just want to make sure I make a right desicison and not something that I will regret. "

You will regret staying with him.
What do you want? For this to continue like this? Or stand by him while desolves his current relationship

Quoting ~Loving Strong~:" I am a torn heart inside right now. I want to do the right thing. but in the same sense I want to be ... [snip!] ... it seems so right. its like she isnt even apart of this. I know it may seem bad but I thought about telling her about myself."

NO!!! Its not your place to tell her...IMO.

You are being not only selfish, but stupid hun. This is not happieness.

not to sound dumb but what does imo mean?

So you are pregnant with twins? Do you think he will tell his gf about you now?

She dont want it to continue like this, .He isnt a liar because he has been honest to me about everything. He wants to tell her its over but he dont want to crush her heart. She know in sense he already did by sleeping around with her but he wants to tell but he just dont know how to tell her,bc he was in a relationship for so long with her. He helped raise HER 2 kids which arent even his. They are now 17 and 12.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Loving Strong~:</b>" I dont want it to continue like this, I am being selfish because I want her gone.He isnt a liar because ... [snip!] ... her,bc he was in a relationship for so long with her. He helped raise HER 2 kids which arent even his. They are now 17 and 12. "</blockquote>


He is a liar, he just hasn't lied to YOU that you know of.

No She is not pregnant with twins. my friend is, she wanted me to poll her names on here and i said I would

Quoting ~Loving Strong~:" I dont want it to continue like this, I am being selfish because I want her gone.He isnt a liar because ... [snip!] ... her,bc he was in a relationship for so long with her. He helped raise HER 2 kids which arent even his. They are now 17 and 12. "

he lies to her...but you know he doesnt lie to you?
And he doesnt have the balls to break up with her...but you think in the future he would have the balls to break up with you?

Girl!!!!! C'mon! Dont sell yourself short!

She doesnt know what they are going to do. but she needed to vent and I did s for her.

Quoting ~Loving Strong~:" i dont know what we are going to do. but I needed to vent and I did so."

I call bluff... I think you know exactly what you are going to do

Honey I seriously just went through this a couple weeks ago. It was such a mess I swear. In the end he chose her because of the kids. I can guarantee you he is telling her the same things he is telling you. Get out of the situation now. It will be so much better for you have you ever heard that song Stay by Sugarland?? You should really listen to it.

yes because him lieing and manipulating her and you makes him the best man in the world right? haha!! I was with a guy that I "stole" from a girl I know and we talked and found out he was lieing to BOTH of us, he broke it off with her and stayed with me and I moved in with him thinking that I could change his ways because I thought he was great and I "loved" him... ya not even after almost 2 years of a relationship, found out he was doing the same thing to MULTIPLE girls.

Anyways girls we are probably just wasting our breath, she already knows and has known what she is going to do and its not the right decision, you are going to stay with this guy and either get your face broke by her or your heart broke by him... ya good luck with that!!! GROW UP and MOVE ON!!! and find a SINGLE man!!!