re: OBGYN DOCTOR IS IDIOT !!!

mmm saying that im not asking my doctor questions or that im wrong for leaving til i got the answers... i know what i do when im at my appointments and what questions i have ask ...

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" mmm saying that im not asking my doctor questions or that im wrong for leaving til i got the answers... i know what i do when im at my appointments and what questions i have ask ..."

What now? You need to take a little more time with your replies, because they're sort of hard to understand.

Did you want answers? Did you leave without them? Well, then that was the wrong choice to make for what you want. That isn't an insult, it's telling you how to get the answers you want.

You need to grow a little thicker skin love, no one is being mean to you. We're telling you everything he's doing sounds normal so you can calm down, and telling you what to do to get these answers from HIM so you'll feel better. It may not be said in the way you want it to be said, but that doesn't make it mean or less valid advice .

<blockquote><b>Quoting NINA ALEXIS:</b>" mmm saying that im not asking my doctor questions or that im wrong for leaving til i got the answers... i know what i do when im at my appointments and what questions i have ask ..."</blockquote>




Well you obviously are leaving before you get answers, not saying you didn't ask but if he jokes with you ask again until you have a response.

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" mmm saying that im not asking my doctor questions or that im wrong for leaving til i got the answers... i know what i do when im at my appointments and what questions i have ask ..."

Then be a little more specific. No one knows what you asked/havent asked, we can only go by what you say.

<blockquote><b>Quoting NINA ALEXIS:</b>" mmm saying that im not asking my doctor questions or that im wrong for leaving til i got the answers... i know what i do when im at my appointments and what questions i have ask ..."</blockquote>


If you truly knew what you were doing you wouldn't of been bitching about him not giving your an ultrasound, or how he said you had " polka dots". I didn't say you were wrong for leaving I said you shouldn't of left until you got your answer.

what am i suppose to go into the next room he walks in to and say hi dont mean to see you vag , but i need to ask my doctor a question , im sorry ... but if he walks out of the room and rushes out hats not my fault thats his for being a sucky doctor and if i knew what i was doing i would not be on here getting ADVICE not smart comments ..

<blockquote><b>Quoting NINA ALEXIS:</b>" what am i suppose to go into the next room he walks in to and say hi dont mean to see you vag , but i ... [snip!] ... thats his for being a sucky doctor and if i knew what i was doing i would not be on here getting ADVICE not smart comments .."</blockquote>

Is English your first language?

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" what am i suppose to go into the next room he walks in to and say hi dont mean to see you vag , but i ... [snip!] ... thats his for being a sucky doctor and if i knew what i was doing i would not be on here getting ADVICE not smart comments .."

Tell him you want him to spend more time explaining some things to you and speak up for yourself. My reg. family doctor rushes me out and I am switching. It is hard to try and make them spend more time on you but if you demand it they can't say no, I think there is a min. amount of time they are suposed to spend on every appointment.

My dr does do ultrasounds but only to check fetal growth he does with everyone but that's just him it's true they can tell babies position with feeling and that you are extremely uncomfortable try not to worry . Good luck

<blockquote><b>Quoting NINA ALEXIS:</b>" what am i suppose to go into the next room he walks in to and say hi dont mean to see you vag , but i ... [snip!] ... thats his for being a sucky doctor and if i knew what i was doing i would not be on here getting ADVICE not smart comments .."</blockquote>


No one is giving you smart comments, if he rushes out tell the nurse you need to speak to him, or when he first comes in ask your questions then. If he's such a sucky doctor you should of switches, that way you get the proper care you want. You have to speak up or no one will know what you want.

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" mmm saying that im not asking my doctor questions or that im wrong for leaving til i got the answers... i know what i do when im at my appointments and what questions i have ask ..."

This is not pregnancy related. That is common sense. If you go to the DR for medical attention you ask your questions and get answers. Then leave after that.

Quoting eur009:" Tell him you want him to spend more time explaining some things to you and speak up for yourself. My ... [snip!] ... but if you demand it they can't say no, I think there is a min. amount of time they are suposed to spend on every appointment."

thanks! every since he put me on coming to his office every week now its like he dont rush to get me to be seen but rushes me out and if i could switch by all means i would ...but i have to go an hour just to see him and the wait there for about an hour and then drive back another hour he has 3 different offices and one is in TN one is in AL and one is in GA so he is only at the office i go to on mondays and thursdays and only there from 2 to when the office closes so i can tell he is rushed for time ..but thanks for you positive feedback and advice

I'm due the day before you and I have my last ultrasound on wednesday to make sure baby is not breech and everything is measuring right. Every doctor is different.You should try calling the office and talk to a nurse about your concerns and ask if you will get another ultrasound.

Quoting Commander Shepard:" They can tell if the baby is breech without an ultrasound. It's normal to be in pain and have discomfort this late in the game."

 

I understand exactly how you feel!! Now my doctor is def. not an idiot he has delivered babies for like 20 years BUT when i ask him questions he doesnt really give me an answer and he jokes and jokes the whole time about the music and his family and stuff. At my last appointment i was going to ask him a question after i had to go to the bathroom to pee in the cup and when i came out he was gone and the nurse said ok have a nice day. also i read to adk ur doctor the benefits and negatives about circumcision and he just said thats up to u. but in america its common for circumcison. (that didnt answer my question i already know that)
also i am 34 weeks and 3 days and i had an u/s done 2 weeks ago and 2 weeks before that. (my baby was breech 4 weeks ago) so he did not feel he used the ultrasound to verify. But like i said i know he will do fine he is a doctor but i would prefer someone who made me feel like im taken serious and explains my questions