re: OBGYN DOCTOR IS IDIOT !!!

Quoting My Lil' Monsters:" I honestly think it is not the OBGYN but the patient. When a patient doesn't ask questions or inquire ... [snip!] ... questions or inquire about what the process is or should be then they try and blame the Dr then the patient is the idiot. (IMO)"

Yup!

like i have theses spots that showed up on my back and then went to my belly and then went to the back of my arms i asked him about it and was like ha ha you have poka dots he didnt even look at it and wrote out a prescription .. im sorry but your a doctor and suppose to check things out if your not going to look at it im not going to take a prescription when you didnt take the time to look at it

<blockquote><b>Quoting NINA ALEXIS:</b>" well i dont know this is my first kid and i ask my doctor a bunch of questions my last US was when i ... [snip!] ... belly button is about to go into two and like someone is stabbing you in your stomach every time she moves it hurts a bunch"</blockquote>


I understand, my last pregnancy was by far my worst so I know your in pain but you doctor isn't an idiot. Next time express your concerns and keep asking until he give you an answer, most people only get 1-2 ultrasounds unless there is a medical issue.

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" like i have theses spots that showed up on my back and then went to my belly and then went to the back ... [snip!] ... check things out if your not going to look at it im not going to take a prescription when you didnt take the time to look at it"

You seem to be trying to justify your feelings. The last thing is questionable, but I also doubt that's exactly what happened or you'd have mentioned it to start with.

If you aren't happy, see if you can switch. If not, write a list of questions and don't leave until he answers them. If he jokes, repeat the question until you get an answer that satisfies you. People get upset, but usually it's because they are not asking questions or being proactive. They are just waiting for the Dr to tell them what they want to hear.

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" like i have theses spots that showed up on my back and then went to my belly and then went to the back ... [snip!] ... check things out if your not going to look at it im not going to take a prescription when you didnt take the time to look at it"

I am sorry, but you're a mother, and if he was really that dumb and you've been seeing him for 37 weeks then there is something to be said about your expectations of care too.

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" like i have theses spots that showed up on my back and then went to my belly and then went to the back ... [snip!] ... check things out if your not going to look at it im not going to take a prescription when you didnt take the time to look at it"

If that was TRULY how that happened, I would have been switching doctors.

Doctors can feel if the baby is breech, but if its hurting that badly, it could also be because you're low on fluid. I've heard that it hurts when your baby moves in there when a woman is low on amniotic fluid. I was low and I didnt have a clue.

Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:" I am sorry, but you're a mother, and if he was really that dumb and you've been seeing him for 37 weeks then there is something to be said about your expectations of care too."

i live about an hour from any doctors office and so just finding one was hard enough i didnt find out i was pregnant til i was baout 4 months in anyways and every doctors office i called around the one i am going to will not take new patients after they are 13 weeks so finding this doctors office was hard work ...

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http://myobsaidwhat.com/

LOL I hope you know most people dont usually get an ultrasound this late. The normal is to get TWO ultrasounds the whole pregnancy. One around 12-14 weeks then the other around 21-23 weeks for the gender. The doctor should be able to tell if he/she is breech just by feeling your belly. Your over reacting wayyyyy to much. Your doctor isn't the idiot here.... The only way you'd get an ultrasound is if they couldn't tell. They usually dont tell you if your baby has turned or not if you dont ask. Plus, you can always waste your money for a ultrasound if you really wanted one. Hence the word 'watse'

<blockquote><b>Quoting NINA ALEXIS:</b>" i live about an hour from any doctors office and so just finding one was hard enough i didnt find out ... [snip!] ... the one i am going to will not take new patients after they are 13 weeks so finding this doctors office was hard work ..."</blockquote>


Even then, you shouldn't of left his office until he answered your questions/concerns that is your fault. You should of also spoke up and told him you don't appreciate the way he jokes about everything. It's not that hard to do.

okay one im asking for advice . that's what i want . im new at this this is my first pregnancy im 20 .. two i dont need the smart comment thanks very much appreciated ....

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" okay one im asking for advice . that's what i want . im new at this this is my first pregnancy im 20 .. two i dont need the smart comment thanks very much appreciated ...."

What advice are you wanting? You're being told that everything he's doing sounds right, and that the pain you're experiencing is normal. What other advice do you want?

Quoting NINA ALEXIS:" okay one im asking for advice . that's what i want . im new at this this is my first pregnancy im 20 .. two i dont need the smart comment thanks very much appreciated ...."

All of this is advice.

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" What advice are you wanting? You're being told that everything he's doing sounds right, and that the pain you're experiencing is normal. What other advice do you want?"</blockquote>