Quoting Mama Rice:" Okay a day time talk show made me think.....if YOUR 16 year old DD or DS was in a relationship (sexual and legal according to the state law) with a 41 year old what would you think of the 41 year old?"
love is love, theres no limits to it.
But as a mature women (34) I dont get how a women my age or older can think its 'okay' to hook up with someone around 20.
At 20 you have no clue where you're going, and lest of all how you're going to get there and what it takes.
When you get in your 30's you have a whole new outlook.
I wouldnt want to make a 20 year old grow up to my level, miss out on things or work harder then they need to.
But thats me. I work with a boy whos 23 and is with a 41 year old. They live together and she has a 4 year old. I couldnt do it.