re: Don't wanna be a bitch, but..

Say NO!!!

Tell them you can use it one more time and thats it, it costs money and im not paying for your phone calls.

say no sorry i can't anymore the bill is getting to high

i know how it is our neighbors are always coming over asking for bread or the password for our internet i finally put my foot down about the internet and told them if they want the password for the internet they have to pay half of it and i told them cause we don't have the money to support them anymore i have a family of 5 to support and everything

Quoting Taste the Rainbow:" say no sorry i can't anymore the bill is getting to high i know how it is our neighbors are always ... [snip!] ... of it and i told them cause we don't have the money to support them anymore i have a family of 5 to support and everything "

Good for you mama!

Quoting Taste the Rainbow:" say no sorry i can't anymore the bill is getting to high i know how it is our neighbors are always ... [snip!] ... of it and i told them cause we don't have the money to support them anymore i have a family of 5 to support and everything "

That is so bizarre! My neighbor and I borrow back and forth but we're friends with them and they use our netflix but who would just ask like that?

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" That is so bizarre! My neighbor and I borrow back and forth but we're friends with them and they use our netflix but who would just ask like that? "

yeah i know i have only got 1 egg off of them one time for meatloaf when we got back from branson and didn't go shopping yet and that was like in june they come over like every other day asking for bread i'm like WTH

Quoting Taste the Rainbow:" yeah i know i have only got 1 egg off of them one time for meatloaf when we got back from branson and ... [snip!] ... branson and didn't go shopping yet and that was like in june they come over like every other day asking for bread i'm like WTH"

I took a pot of chili up the other night and she has given me ketchup, bread, etc. We just trade back and forth, no big deal. I feel like you can do that with good neighbors. I have never felt taken advantage of and neither have they.

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" I took a pot of chili up the other night and she has given me ketchup, bread, etc. We just trade back ... [snip!] ... no big deal. I feel like you can do that with good neighbors. I have never felt taken advantage of and neither have they."

i feel like we are being taken advantage all the time they moved her mom in and hide it from the landlord for like 3 months till i told our landlord cause the mom yelled through the wall at my kids telling them you quite down over there or i'm going to come over there and whip your ass yeah that is what started making me mad and everything

Quoting Taste the Rainbow:" i feel like we are being taken advantage all the time they moved her mom in and hide it from the landlord ... [snip!] ... quite down over there or i'm going to come over there and whip your ass yeah that is what started making me mad and everything "

Damn. Now the cigarette smoke from my other neighbors doesn't seem so bad.

Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" What exactly would you say to them, then?"

A good, firm "NO" comes to mind here...

Quoting Taste the Rainbow:" say no sorry i can't anymore the bill is getting to high i know how it is our neighbors are always ... [snip!] ... of it and i told them cause we don't have the money to support them anymore i have a family of 5 to support and everything "

Exactly. I'm not going to be hateful. I have to live around these people, at least until November, so I don't want to start smurf. I have a car parked outside that I would rather not be keyed or something! But next time they ask, I'm just going to simply tell them no. Once or twice is one thing, but....Don't keep coming back. I wouldn't even do it once, honestly. Unless I was at home, with no phone, and it was a straight emergency..Maybe. But just to call and check my bank account or something.....No chance in hell would I knock on some random strangers door.