My BD is upset that our son is going to head start. Which is like early rpe-school. IDk why!!?? This was a better option for both our son and me. BD wants me to keep driving 2 hours a day (morning and night routes) back and forth to his moms house so she can get paid to watch him for $600/month. Head start is $400/month . He used to be with our son in the mornings while I'm at work . Now he thinks I'm trying to keep his son away from her. I told BD he could pick our son up from school any day. And I never have kept.my.son away from his dad ever.
sounds to me he just wants to start drama. Tell him this is best for the son and like you stated he can go and pick him up anytime but don't be bringing him to his moms house for her to watch because then she will be waiting to be paid.