Quoting Buffy♥:" I would take it as a life experience. I don't think two kids later was a waste of time!"
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Feeling like this makes me want to cry, I feel guilty. This totally sucks balls. "
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" It's just so scary.. I honestly do love him, and then there are times I am in love with him, but then ... [snip!] ... is pointless. I'm not even sexually attracted to him any more, and it makes him mad that I won't have sex with him. "
Quoting Buffy♥:" I feel that way with DH a lot. Have you maybe talked to your doctor about it? Sometimes there can be underlying issues for not having a sex drive anymore"
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" I think it's just my SO. It's hard to be attracted to someone with no motivation for anything. And his ... [snip!] ... weight gain bothers me, and I try to be nice about it and mention it on how we should diet and exercise. He just doesn't care. "
Quoting Buffy♥:" I'm in the same boat. Sometimes I can look at him or see him do something and be like, "Gosh, I love ... [snip!] ... times I can't stand to be around him...leaving hasn't crossed my mind though. I think I'm depressed and that's a big part of it"
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" you sound like you may have a touch of seasonal depression. i get like that during the winter as well. ... [snip!] ... its probably time to move on. im sorry youre going through his. ill be on fb later if you want/need to vent. <3."
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" I think I'm going to straight up tell him tonight that he needs to lose some weight. He was exercising ... [snip!] ... video games all the time, not exercising. Having sex with him grosses me out. I feel like I'm disrespectful to myself. "That's all you can really do. Discuss your feelings with him and either hope he changes or you both mutually agree to split.