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Quoting Kimber-Lily:" It's just so scary.. I honestly do love him, and then there are times I am in love with him, but then ... [snip!] ... is pointless. I'm not even sexually attracted to him any more, and it makes him mad that I won't have sex with him.  "

I'm in the same boat. I love him,and am in love with him. Sex has always been bad though,he will get off and not care about me much so it's not worth it to me anymore. & I'm tired of trying without him trying. :/

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" I think I'm going to straight up tell him tonight that he needs to lose some weight. He was exercising ... [snip!] ... video games all the time, not exercising. Having sex with him grosses me out. I feel like I'm disrespectful to myself.  "

Good luck,I keep trying to get my SO to eat healthier. He just comes up with excuses.   You just can tell he's not confident and it doesn't help the sex drive.