Quoting Mommy2Kay:" Encourage him to lose weight in not such an obvious way? lol I dated a chubby guy and I couldn't move ... [snip!] ... looking directly at me LMAO. But anyways, you can work around his weight, exercising could be a way of spending time together."
yeah he is already on the right track... hes lost tons of weight already and is continuing with it
My only problem is I really want an active guy, someone who is willing to want to do active things over non active things... Where we are never just sitting in the house watching TV... and I kinda feel like once he looses the amount of weight he wants then he will go back to just hangin out