re: how important is attraction

Quoting Cassie♥:" yeah he is already on the right track... hes lost tons of weight already and is continuing with it   ... [snip!] ... TV... and I kinda feel like once he looses the amount of weight he wants then he will go back to just hangin out "

I think you guys can talk about those things and stay active together. I hope that he knows he needs to stay active to not gain the weight back.

i am not physically attracted to my SO.. he has an amazing smile (dimples and all) but i go for more fit and atheltic guys.. but once we get past the looks hes probally one of the very few guys whos ever treated me like a woman should be treated..

to me physical attraction is some what important especially if your looking into a long term thing just because if your not attracted to that person in every way, then it may not last long, but thats just me. if you can look past it completely then good for you!!

I have to find a guy some what attractive, but personality really makes it or breaks it with me.

I've dated guys that I thought were attractive, who really weren't to everyone else, then when they showed who they really are I became embarrassed to be with them.

I've always been told, by my friends, that I've always dated guys who wouldn't seem my type or that the guys I dare are ugly. I heard that a lot when DH and I were dating, but I really don't think he's ugly at all.

its pretty simple

to like somebody you have to be attracted to them
and to love them you need to love their personality


i think the fact you are thinking about it, you have to be somewhat attracted to the guy