re: What is the prob?longg vent

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" Keep reading. The man's not flirting with anyone, and he drinks 2 beers a week. She has an issue when ... [snip!] ... he's talking to. She's also snooping his facebook, that's how she found anything out. He's not in the wrong here. She is. "

Lying to her and saying he was talking to a dude when really he was talking to some girl, would honestly, make me want to snoop too. There should be no reason to lie about who he is talking to if there is nothing going on.

Quoting can111:" Lying to her and saying he was talking to a dude when really he was talking to some girl, would honestly, ... [snip!] ... honestly, make me want to snoop too. There should be no reason to lie about who he is talking to if there is nothing going on."

She even SAID later in the thread nothing was going on! He was probably not telling her to keep her from blowing her gasket at him...

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" She even SAID later in the thread nothing was going on! He was probably not telling her to keep her from blowing her gasket at him... "

I could see how she would be insecure about the one night she said about him talking to other women he just met telling them that their relationship is rocky, he doesn't need to say anything to anyone about their relationship and saying how he's been thinking about them. That's a little off to me. Even if it was the one night and I saw that I'd be a little cautious myself about who he is talking to and what he is talking about with them.

Quoting can111:" I could see how she would be insecure about the one night she said about him talking to other women ... [snip!] ... the one night and I saw that I'd be a little cautious myself about who he is talking to and what he is talking about with them."

He was talking to friends... How does SHE know he JUST met them? He could be talking to an old friend and just told her the other because he knew how she'd react. She has some serious trust issues, she should not be snooping his smurf, and she should not be trying to control him like this.

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" He was talking to friends... How does SHE know he JUST met them? He could be talking to an old friend ... [snip!] ... She has some serious trust issues, she should not be snooping his smurf, and she should not be trying to control him like this."

I'm going off of what she has said on this thread not off of what could be happening. Yeah, she does need to talk to him about her trust issues and maybe if they can't figure things out try couples counseling. & if they can't come to some sort of compromise and try to work things out then I say they need to split.

Quoting can111:" I'm going off of what she has said on this thread not off of what could be happening. Yeah, she does ... [snip!] ... counseling. & if they can't come to some sort of compromise and try to work things out then I say they need to split."

She also said in the thread that he wasn't doing anything more than friendly conversation and that she wants him to tell her whenever he talks to a girl. Controlling. She wants control of who he talks to when it comes to females, and that's not going to work. I feel bad for him... no one should feel like they need to sneak to have friendly conversation with someone, male or female.

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" She also said in the thread that he wasn't doing anything more than friendly conversation and that she ... [snip!] ... I feel bad for him... no one should feel like they need to sneak to have friendly conversation with someone, male or female. "

I agree with the controlling part. She shouldn't have control of who he talks to. There must be something more to this like maybe a problem that has happened in the past that has caused her to be insecure about him talking other women.

Quoting can111:" I agree with the controlling part. She shouldn't have control of who he talks to. There must be something ... [snip!] ... to this like maybe a problem that has happened in the past that has caused her to be insecure about him talking other women."

Someone else said she's been on here before with the same controlling attitude, and nothing in the past as far as anyone is aware of. It's sad. He shouldn't have to worry about talking to his friends just to appease her.

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" Someone else said she's been on here before with the same controlling attitude, and nothing in the past ... [snip!] ... the past as far as anyone is aware of. It's sad. He shouldn't have to worry about talking to his friends just to appease her."

That is sad. Sad for him and sad for her.