Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" Keep reading. The man's not flirting with anyone, and he drinks 2 beers a week. She has an issue when ... [snip!] ... he's talking to. She's also snooping his facebook, that's how she found anything out. He's not in the wrong here. She is. "
Quoting can111:" Lying to her and saying he was talking to a dude when really he was talking to some girl, would honestly, ... [snip!] ... honestly, make me want to snoop too. There should be no reason to lie about who he is talking to if there is nothing going on."
Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" She even SAID later in the thread nothing was going on! He was probably not telling her to keep her from blowing her gasket at him... "
Quoting can111:" I could see how she would be insecure about the one night she said about him talking to other women ... [snip!] ... the one night and I saw that I'd be a little cautious myself about who he is talking to and what he is talking about with them."
Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" He was talking to friends... How does SHE know he JUST met them? He could be talking to an old friend ... [snip!] ... She has some serious trust issues, she should not be snooping his smurf, and she should not be trying to control him like this."
Quoting can111:" I'm going off of what she has said on this thread not off of what could be happening. Yeah, she does ... [snip!] ... counseling. & if they can't come to some sort of compromise and try to work things out then I say they need to split."
Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" She also said in the thread that he wasn't doing anything more than friendly conversation and that she ... [snip!] ... I feel bad for him... no one should feel like they need to sneak to have friendly conversation with someone, male or female. "
Quoting can111:" I agree with the controlling part. She shouldn't have control of who he talks to. There must be something ... [snip!] ... to this like maybe a problem that has happened in the past that has caused her to be insecure about him talking other women."
Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" Someone else said she's been on here before with the same controlling attitude, and nothing in the past ... [snip!] ... the past as far as anyone is aware of. It's sad. He shouldn't have to worry about talking to his friends just to appease her."