Quoting *Nov.13*:" I not. It's like when I just look to see what he has been up to. Not trying to find something... Out ... [snip!] ... I do find stuff that I'm not happy with. Like I said I wanted to message my bro, and there was unread message from a girl..."
So you snoop in his stuff because you are curious to see what he's up to!?!?!? REALLY?!?!?! Why don't you just TALK to him?
Now I remember you... you are the girl that got mad that her SO was up late playing X-Box because he had work and had to work on his insurance. You wanted him to go to bed and not play with your brother. I honestly think you need to step back and see that if you are wanting to control who your SO talks to... when he can play video games.... when he goes to bed.... well it's time to either end it or let the poor guy breathe on his own. Im sorry but no wife/SO should dictate a mans life like that. If he is just being friendly and wanting to play games with your brother and you have his entire schedule all planned out and then try to control who he can talk to.... hun you need to STEP BACK, be alone for a bit, and realize that the way you are going about a relationship is not healthy. You snoop in his stuff to see what he's been up to... seriously, you have a huge control and lack of trust problem.