opinions needed ,, please,

Okay well here is the story..
My boyfriend got a full ride to school in Florida. So in July he left to go attend school. Since at the moment, our daughter was only a month old I chose to stay here in Texas until we could manage to be financially stable and capable of providing for her. We both have a tooon of family here and they help us tremendously. I couldn't ask for better in laws. But my mom gives me hell for staying with him because he left and went to school,

My question is:
If in this situation would you manage to try and make things work or should I be mad because he left?

Make things Work.
Sounds like he's being a good dad and trying to Better your daughters future.

nope as long as he's working his ass off to better your lives. My husband has had to leave for work. Neither of us liked it but it had to be done. Just make sure he stays focused and works to get you out there!

Make things work..he left to make a better life for you all!

You shouldn't be mad he left to better his, yours, & your LO future.

make it work, i felt when my SO left to basic that he left me alone but within the months i knew it was to have a better future for us. So we wouldn't have to struggle or depend on our parents. Stick it out everything will get better.

I'm smurfing lost, why the hell would you be mad at him?

Quoting Sweetie-Pie:" I'm smurfing lost, why the hell would you be mad at him?"

I think her mom is putting smurf in her head.

Quoting Sweetie-Pie:" I'm smurfing lost, why the hell would you be mad at him?"

idk either??? maybe because her mom told her she should be?

i would be happy that my SO was trying to better himself for our family.

Quoting ∃ M i N ∃ M:" make it work, i felt when my SO left to basic that he left me alone but within the months i knew it was ... [snip!] ... have a better future for us. So we wouldn't have to struggle or depend on our parents. Stick it out everything will get better."

It hurts like hell that he's gone but we plan to move out there this summer. His mom is going to help us out until we can actually get a place of our own.

Quoting *Turtles*:" I think her mom is putting smurf in her head."

Yeah maybe, because her post described her mom being all crazy and then her question was referring her SO. I'd be annoyed with my mom.

Quoting Sweetie-Pie:" I'm smurfing lost, why the hell would you be mad at him?"

I was 6 months pregnant when he got the news that he had gotten the scholarship after that everything he did was wrong in my moms eyes. I gave her HIS last name and that was wrong (according to her). He lives in the same state as one of his ex's who just happened to try to get with him when we were separated for a few weeks last month. (long story on that one). Its a lot of BS honestly. but I have "friends" that have said they'd be pissed if their SO left them and their newborn child no matter what the case is.

Quoting Sweetie-Pie:" Yeah maybe, because her post described her mom being all crazy and then her question was referring her SO. I'd be annoyed with my mom. "

She's also mad because he hasn't found a job yet so he hasn't sent me any money but his grandparents have helped me buy stuff for her until he can actually find a job.

He didnt leave you cause he wanted to go off partying.....he left to go make a better life for you and his daughter. Its not easy leaving your family behind, but its called being a mature parent and trying to make a better life for your family. Now if hes partying and trying to get with his ex's thats a diff story....but leaving to go to school to better the life of his family is the responsible thing to do!!!! I would think your mom would be proud that hes trying to do right by you guys instead of just goofing off.